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Topic: how should i deal with this problem?
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Mon 12/17/07 07:31 AM
ok theres a girl i was dating she cheated on me 3 times we broke up and then we got back together. nows she ended it agin i dont know why. i need some help i am conflicted stay friends or just forget about her completly?brokenheart explode

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Mon 12/17/07 07:33 AM
Don't burn any bridges, stay friends, but go out with someone else.

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Mon 12/17/07 07:35 AM
Try to forget about her completely. If you try to stay friends you'll most likely get suckered in again. I'm just guessing that you'll have a hard time staying "friends" since you've gotten back together with her 3 times.

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Mon 12/17/07 07:36 AM
Why would you go back to her after she cheated on you 3 times?noway huh

I say forget about her and move on. You do not need those kind of games in your life. Not worth it. You are the one that will end up hurt in the end.

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Mon 12/17/07 07:36 AM
Its time to get off that rollercoaster of love!

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Mon 12/17/07 07:37 AM
She has no respect for you. She doesn't deserve your time as a friend. Leave her in the dust.

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Mon 12/17/07 07:38 AM
so basically leave her completly and move on.

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Mon 12/17/07 07:42 AM
yes dark you got it!

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Mon 12/17/07 07:42 AM
Edited by Amalie on Mon 12/17/07 07:44 AM

Don't burn any bridges, stay friends, but go out with someone else.


I disagree.... BURN BABY BURN!! Life is too short for heartache which is exactly what she is. If she has cheated on you 1 time you took her back she cheated again.. I guess I am lost... you took her back a 2nd time.. then dhe cheated again... 3 strikes your out. Dont set yourself up for heatache again.. There are better people in the world. she will continue. Friends would not work either.. you will kepp getting back in the "relationship" and it will be a circle.

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Mon 12/17/07 07:48 AM
To the curb she must go...

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Mon 12/17/07 07:51 AM
Forget her. Stay friends if you want to, but definitely move on, as that's a permanent pattern.

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Mon 12/17/07 07:52 AM
i think u should forget her...... perhaps she found someone new again.. so broke up with u so she didnt have to cheat? obviously u are not what she is looking for cause she has continued to look and test other goods while with you... i bet she may try to come back once she is done with the fling she maybe having... gl to u!flowerforyou flowerforyou i know how u feel i fell for this myself before never again!!!

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Mon 12/17/07 07:53 AM
Why would you want to stay friends with someone that did all of that to you?? She has no respect for you.
Sounds to me like you just want to stay friends so you can hang on in someway, we've all done it. It never works... I say "to the curb, she must go"

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Mon 12/17/07 07:54 AM
good point in fact the ironic thing is she was using this site while we were together and she still is to my knowledge she also found some on on here and went and saw him twice.

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Mon 12/17/07 07:55 AM

Why would you want to stay friends with someone that did all of that to you?? She has no respect for you.
Sounds to me like you just want to stay friends so you can hang on in someway, we've all done it. It never works... I say "to the curb, she must go"


oh yea and i totally agree with this!!!

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Mon 12/17/07 07:55 AM
Yo the same s**t happend to me a couple years ago. She kept comeing back to me when there was no one else. And as soon as she would think someone else can do just a little more for her, she'd be gone again. cheating. After two years (i don't give up that easily) i had enough. We tried to stay friends, but i was still too in love with her for that. It hurt way to bad to talk to her. Dude i'm tellin you from expereance. Move on, forget about her, and find some one else. Staying friends is way to painful. My two cents

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Mon 12/17/07 07:58 AM
friends dont use friends....... flowerforyou

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Mon 12/17/07 07:59 AM
I have enough enemies in my world... I certainly wouldn't need to add a "friend" like that.

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Mon 12/17/07 08:01 AM
thats a good point happy

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Mon 12/17/07 08:03 AM
ya i been with my girlfriend for 4 years & she cheated on me twice and we just broke up the other day cause of the same reason she also used me how rude i hat that when that happens i camnt find anybody good that respects me:cry: :cry: sad sad

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