Topic: married again? | |
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think you would take the PLUNGE again after all the S-IT u have been
thru??? |
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dunno
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its a gamble now days!
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Until the time comes and until I am in a loving and trusting
relationship I can't say yes or no, I have to wait and se what life hands me |
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nope not me I will stay a widow
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yep. im with you gals!... im not going 2 do it either.
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I would I'm still young, I got two more strikes then I'm out. lol
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This was my second. I have spent the last 14 years married to one, then
the other. One couldn't leave the meth and get a job, the other got into all of it....sex, drugs, but.....he held a job! A third time.....if I am smart I won't. I always swore I would never be a divorcee. HA! |
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yes you are shadow
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Hummmmmmm If there is one thing you learn in life it's.
NEVER SAY NEVER!!!!!! It will come back and BITE YA IN THE ASS!! If I fall in love and the issue comes up I would but it's not something that I have to do in order to be happy! |
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I am open to marriage, sure someday I would love to be married, bu I
have to have cerain things first..respect, safety, trust and love..with out them then its nothing, I've been through hell I am not about to go through it again. |
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you will find someone special Lily
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I was only married once,,,so if I found th right girl...yes!
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You know, Morena, I have met someone very, very nice and respectful and
we have more in common than I have ever had w/ someone. Our kids are even the same age. But, I am terrified. I get sick when I think of letting this go farther. I am afraid of hurting him, me, our kids....another messy breakup. I am also leery of being dependent. When I was younger, I thought it was wonderful to love, but now it has become a very intimidating matter. |
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humm just take it one day at a time
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let's just say I'm really hopin 3's a charm cuz I'm workin on #3 lol
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TxsGurly's right Lily, one step at a time..see with your eyes and hear
with your heart but think with your brain.. |
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I may live together with a partner but no marriage
you know something? I don't know when I will get over my husban death. sorry for bringing that subject. |
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Really? Do you feel strange about it being the third? I mean, I feel
like a Liz Taylor groupie. I feel like I am past my "quota" |
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Don't be sorry, Morena. The death of someone you love is not something
that ever completely goes away. My brothers wife lost her first husband in an accident 9 years ago. My brother and sis-in-law dated for years, but didn't get married until a year ago. |
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