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Topic: Help us younger men out, Older Ladies
joy1212 Joined Sat 12/14/19 Posts: 3	Sat 12/14/19 02:57 AM


Unknow Joined Tue 09/03/19 Posts: 2	Sat 12/14/19 11:39 AM
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Akil Sharma Joined Sat 12/14/19 Posts: 3	Sat 12/14/19 12:04 PM
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Akil Sharma Joined Sat 12/14/19 Posts: 3	Sat 12/14/19 12:05 PM
I want to dating with you

Lookin4aFriend Joined Sat 12/07/19 Posts: 2	Sat 12/14/19 12:16 PM
So this is to not only help me out, but maybe help some of the other guys on this site. Though some men on here are looking to chat with older women (myself included), some immediately want to jump into the woman's pants and make it all about sex, ruining the opportunity for the flip side of that coin (which is talk, see how it goes, form a friendship, open to the possibility of it becoming physical). I know young men are not everyone's cup of tea, but for those that are, what are some things that we young men can do to not only get your attention, but reinforce the idea that we're not going to jump down your pants after the first response back.

Lookin4aFriend Joined Sat 12/07/19 Posts: 2	Sat 12/14/19 12:40 PM
So this is to not only help me out, but maybe help some of the other guys on this site. Though some men on here are looking to chat with older women (myself included), some immediately want to jump into the woman's pants and make it all about sex, ruining the opportunity for the flip side of that coin (which is talk, see how it goes, form a friendship, open to the possibility of it becoming physical). I know young men are not everyone's cup of tea, but for those that are, what are some things that we young men can do to not only get your attention, but reinforce the idea that we're not going to jump down your pants after the first response back. Keep your shirt on. Represent your authentic self in photo and/or profile. Don't open with your "cold and lonely bed," "need touch," "want to flirt," etc. Look for women who have something in common with you and live in your area. Meet in public in the middle of the day, more than once. Getting attention depends on the woman. Some appreciate meaningful conversations, soft-spoken, polite, kind people who have passion for a subject in common. Put away expectations. Some women pick up on that and if those expectations are beyond getting to know her and having conversation, then you've betrayed your intentions. Some older women like younger men because there is a better chance of finding someone without old misogynistic patriarchal ways, with a strong passion for what they believe in, and who have energy and hope to go out and make their goals happen. Also, some women are not age fetishists and are open to people of any age who display the qualities they are looking for. It might be a little creepy for me to know a man only dates older women and doesn't care about any other details. Treat an older woman the same as you would a younger woman. Hopefully that is with respect and curiosity.

Gadis Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 3	Sat 12/14/19 05:59 PM


Molly Joined Fri 12/13/19 Posts: 1	Sat 12/14/19 09:57 PM
Hi

Kulijo Joined Fri 11/22/19 Posts: 8	Wed 12/18/19 09:13 PM
hello ladies is there anything to do with the relationship?

Ariana Joined Sun 11/17/19 Posts: 18	Thu 12/19/19 04:29 PM
If you're only looking for some fun, I say just ask, or make it obvious that's what you're looking for. There are plenty of older women looking for a strings-free sort of relationship. But if either of you have plans or aspirations for a romantic, long-term relationship, don't waste time and heartache trying to get what you won't get.

mamel Joined Mon 12/16/19 Posts: 6	Fri 12/20/19 12:04 AM
I like a man older than me they said if the man older than you that man could handle you in any aspect but there is nothing wrong to be inlove in a older woman as long as you respect them.

lovemaker4u2enjoy2night Joined Mon 09/09/19 Posts: 1	Fri 12/20/19 02:04 PM
i'd love to pull down your pants anytime