I see. That's really good to accept people for how they are. I, myself have very controversial views about transgender, which I'm trying to change with understanding them. Nowadays people identify themselves as whatever they like to be. Its mostly a man or woman but they do identify as a wolf, cat, dog, bear and even a car. So i guess if i want to be identified as superman, people should address me as such just for sake of my happiness when in fact i know myself I'm not superman. But what if i force you to acknowledge that I'm a superman? Would you do so? Maybe i am living a fantasy. Maybe i don't want to accept reality(me not actually being superman) or maybe i want to change my own reality and force you to make me feel something which isn't real(superman). Its like me telling you that I'm a white person, call me white. of course I'm not a pure Aryan and i can't change that. The same is with transgender.

For people with gender identity disorder i understand they cannot cope with their bodies and they dislike how they are born. Perhaps hormone replacement therapy is only solution i guess and I support that so they can be productive in society again and function well.

I'm sorry i didn't mean sexual orientation is a problem if the man dresses as a woman. i was talking about gender identity of such man. Homosexuals don't need to feel like a woman because They don't have gender identity problem. They're fine with whatever gender they are born with. Sexual orientation is fine and being gay is actually as normal as being straight. Nobody is born gay or straight. The environment which they are raised in make them straight or gay. Like i was not born with any sexual orientation, neither you. Children get sexual orientation at around age 4. The orientation is decided by factors such as surroundings and culture. The more open a society is to homosexuals the more children will become homosexuals because they will have the choice to be so. That is why Russian government passed a law banning homosexual activities in front of children. However, i don't support such law.

The US also accepts people who want to believe they are superman... there are even special places for them to live so they can carry on their fantasy, lol.

Sorry... I do get your point and what you're saying. I agree with some of what you said and disagree with other things, but this thread probably isn't the place to discuss it more. The topic is about guys choosing to wear women's lingerie and we
got a little off that topic.

Having transgender tendencies could be a reason a man chooses to dress in lingerie, but perhaps not. Some might have other reasons, of which we don't know unless we ask them directly. Maybe they simply like the feel of silky clothes next to their skin and are comfortable to do so in their own homes?

I do know a man who wears women's clothing, he's gay. He doesn't have mixed up ideas about his sexual orientation and isn't uncomfortable in his body. He simply likes wearing girly clothes. He functions well in society as a manager for a resort.

The fact that he's gay somehow makes it okay in other's eyes that he wears girly clothes. But if a straight man were to do the same, suddenly there's an issue. My question to that is why is it okay for him, but not okay for a straight man?

I admit I've felt the same way, had issues with a straight man wearing lingerie, but am okay with a gay man doing so. Why, what's the difference and who am I to judge? I wear pants and men's shirts and sometimes men's boots. No one seems to balk at that.

Anywho... I'm rambling so I'll stop. Just a little food for thought.

Aye. That's enough to clear some of my misconceptions and change my view. Surely not a place to discuss these

Good discussion though, it's always nice when people can talk about their thoughts and not have it turn into a debate or tug of war thing over who's right and who's wrong.

I keep hearing Tim Curry's voice singing...
Rocky Horror Picture Show
* I'm just a sweet transvestite *


Meh...
What a person does in the privacy of
their own home, or closet, is their own
business.

Just be courteous enough, to not leave
hershey stains in your wife's undergarments.

One of the things I learned being a parent to a teenage daughter was that some things they did, you just accepted. As long as the behavior or style had no long term risks or dangers, it wasn't worth making a judgement. Same thing goes to clothing styles especially in private. Has no impact on me so why should I have any concerns? Same attitude if it was somebody close to me in life today. A male buddy who wants to wear a short skirt, go for it. I might give him a little **** in a friendly manner as I would for many other things but never in a demeaning way!! Worry about the real problems in life for there are many!!

Humm to each his own~~~~ All I can say if he puts mine on he can put his clothes on and leave not my thing at all..

I prefer a manly man not one that wants to get my clothes off, just so he can wear them..

If they want to wear women's lingerie then we can be friends but nothing more.. jmo~~~

Now if they like silky boxers or pj's that are made for men I could deal with that but wearing women's lingerie is a total turn off for me..~~

Is he an unstable, gender confused?
Does he wan to be the giver or receiver?
I have admit to wearing a pair of womens thongs. After the wife found them in the glove box.

Not a good place to keep your panties!

Ya think?!

correction...
not a good place to keep HER panties

Yep. They became mine after the wife found them