what thing shows that a man is caring?

He shows you respect

If he is not forwarding you his junk pic thats a great form of respect in the online dating world now a days.

well said

Good one..

That reminds me; I really should get rid of some of this junk in the yard before I invite her over for dinner. Then she won't have to look at my junk.

That he is Willing and will send you a Photo of himself dong what I do in mine to Validate who he is... This goes for the Ladies also...

Nothing and everything and care about what?

You have to pay attention and learn to communicate.

That means learning how they communicate. Discerning what they mean by whatever expression(s)/behavior they are exhibiting.

I mean:
"He shows you respect"
What does that mean? And why is he showing you "respect?"
Does he actually respect you? Or does he engage in "respectful" behavior as a means of avoiding conflict? Or because he wants you to judge him as "respectful" or "caring," and it's about validating his identity as a "respectful" or "caring" person which would ultimately translate to/mean that he only really "respects" or "cares" about you as an extension of himself?

Or something like this:
"I really should get rid of some of this junk in the yard before I invite her over for dinner."
People do this before a date over. Clean, put "junk" away, whatever.
Why? Is it to present a false image of who they are? To manipulate an image? Because they "care" about their visitors comfort and safety?
The only "thing" you will experience is them having put stuff away, a junkless yard.


So the onus is on you to figure out if a man is "caring" by your own intelligence and ability to figure out and learn to communicate.
It's not really on the guy to do a "thing" that shows they "care."
Guys will do things to try and show they "care."
But it's on you to figure out and understand it as such.

Sorry, no shortcuts allowing you to objectify guys into one compartmentalized group where you can just pay attention to random "things" to show you some kind of "truth."

Developing relationships and figuring out emotions and learning to communicate is nearly a full time job.

when my late wife and I got married, we made a point of NOT smearing cake in each others faces. instead we gently and carefully fed each other. we made a point of telling people why. this is how much care we had for each other. look for that, no matter how it looks....thats what your looking for.

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When he takes the dishes out
of your sink, before he pees.

Be still my heart

come on man, that's just setting an unrealistic standard.

Wow. Smiles

or he is small. never see small dudes walking around the locker room without a towel, big dudes always walking around without a towel.

so its partially true.
yes, no dick pix could be a sign of respect, or again, he could be just small.