Constantly "they" show really young men looking at my profile. Come on, really? Rarely do "they" show appropriate age and location people as being interested in, or even looking, at me. And if all the young man really are looking up my profile, there are a lot of strange people on this site. To be honest, I'm starting to wonder just how many real people are on here. I'm certainly not finding any.

There are some probably bots that viewed in your profile. Their pattern is quite simple the bots will view then like after that they will send nudges probably kisses or wink (mostly kisses). But like i said some of them probably are bots. I mean i’m not gonna lie even I like to view older woman profile but i will mostly send a message saying i want to be their friends along the line.

Anybody, can look at anyone else's profile.
Big deal.

I know anyone can look at anyone's profile, but I joined so I could, maybe, meet men who were close to my age and location. Only ones who have looked at my profile are very young and very far away.

possible kinds of guys, apart from those genuinely interested:

1. guys who will simply try with just about anyone regardless of their own preferences, much less the woman's

2. scammers who wanna make you think they love you so that you'll send them money

3. cougar-hunters

note that this site has an automatic mechanism that creates ad pages for search engines where your profile will be categorized into things like "teen", "MILF", "BBW", "cougar" etc.

like if you google "springfield cougar dating" you will find one of the first few hits will be a page on this site, where profiles of springfield women older than a certain age (30 or 35 i forget) will be listed. other categories depend on whether you're above a weight limit or have kids etc. i guess you get the idea.

edit: the "automatic mechanism" is just my guess, it definitely looks like that.

I tell people I'm not a cougar, I'm a lion...I have my pride.

^^^^^^ This

Filter settings only apply when it comes to mails, ie who can contact you. Pity this won't apply on who can view your profile.

Well look at that! Your sense of humor still works! So go with it. Give it time. Even if you don't find a mate here, you can read and post some things in the forums. Sometimes if you stop looking hard, what you're looking for will come to you...