Topic: A few days here now...Newbie
ScotsIrish's photo
Mon 08/26/19 07:56 PM
Trying to get the hang of this.....
why are people in their twenties contacting me....lol

A few observations...people stating they are younger in their info, but profile is showing older...lol

And why are people altering their faces to look like anime....boy would that be a shocker if they looked like that on a date...lol

Trying to keep an open mind...Cheers...Tom.

delightfulillusion's photo
Mon 08/26/19 10:02 PM
Welcome to Mingle2 ScotsIrish.

You do know that you can set mail filters so that you only receive messages from those that fit your criteria? You can do that here http://mingle2.com/inbox/filters

Enjoy your stay and happy mingling waving

Mary's photo
Tue 08/27/19 01:17 AM
Thank you so much for the information about how to filter the mail you get. I was getting so tired of messages from people as young, or younger than, my children. And all the ones who are hundreds, if not thousands, of miles away.

I have also noticed that pictures and dialogue don't match. Picture shows a guy in a business suit. Message is reads like it's from an illiterate 16 year old.

NotPay4Play's photo
Tue 08/27/19 04:07 AM
Welcome to the asylum known as mingle.

I wish you the best of luck here.

Trust your instincts. If it sounds too good to be true. Than it probably is.


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Tue 08/27/19 05:15 AM
scots sometimes when the posted age doesn't match the age stated in the dialogue, it's because the profile hasn't been updated ever. look at the last seen up top. last seen over a month ago is the oldest the system can say. it should prolly say last seen years agooops

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Tue 08/27/19 05:22 AM
Hi Tom waving Welcome to Mingle2... Nice profile, I like your sense of humor.

Stick around the forums, you'll find a little more authenticity here. Best of luck to you and have fun mingling... Cheers!

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Tue 08/27/19 05:29 AM
Welcome Tom and enjoy!

tessa68's photo
Tue 08/27/19 07:05 AM

Trying to get the hang of this.....
why are people in their twenties contacting me....lol

A few observations...people stating they are younger in their info, but profile is showing older...lol

And why are people altering their faces to look like anime....boy would that be a shocker if they looked like that on a date...lol

Trying to keep an open mind...Cheers...Tom.



Welcome to Mingle site.I am 50 but no one believes mefrustrated frustrated frustrated

ScotsIrish's photo
Tue 08/27/19 07:19 AM
Thanks for the compliment ! Were a "salty" bunch from Ireland...sarcasm is in our viens...lol I try to tone it down...lol...its not outside the box to even crack a joke at a funeral where I'm from :blush:

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Tue 08/27/19 08:38 AM


Trying to get the hang of this.....
why are people in their twenties contacting me....lol

A few observations...people stating they are younger in their info, but profile is showing older...lol

And why are people altering their faces to look like anime....boy would that be a shocker if they looked like that on a date...lol

Trying to keep an open mind...Cheers...Tom.



Welcome to Mingle site.I am 50 but no one believes mefrustrated frustrated frustrated

tessa that is sooooo not true unless they think you are 40bigsmile

tessa68's photo
Tue 08/27/19 07:56 PM



Trying to get the hang of this.....
why are people in their twenties contacting me....lol

A few observations...people stating they are younger in their info, but profile is showing older...lol

And why are people altering their faces to look like anime....boy would that be a shocker if they looked like that on a date...lol

Trying to keep an open mind...Cheers...Tom.



Welcome to Mingle site.I am 50 but no one believes mefrustrated frustrated frustrated

tessa that is sooooo not true unless they think you are 40bigsmile
they think am only 35laugh laugh laugh

ScotsIrish's photo
Thu 08/29/19 02:54 PM
Edited by ScotsIrish on Thu 08/29/19 02:55 PM
Thanks fot the filter tip.......all that unwanted stuff screeched to a halt (well most of it)...

maybwecan's photo
Thu 08/29/19 09:10 PM

Thanks fot the filter tip.......all that unwanted stuff screeched to a halt (we most of it)...


And don't wait for folks to contact you, use the Mingle search to find potential matches ...and then you do the contacting...