Are you asking why people like TheCaptain and I are still on here professing our love for one another??? Maybe because we want to show people who have doubts about a Dating/friendship website working, that if you give it a chance, you just might luck out and find your special someone. (and just check out my picture......the only people I am perfect to is myself, my kids and TheCaptain...and that is all that matters).

And since this is a place to meet people, we stay for the wonderful friends we have made in the past eight months or more.

Single? Check.
Interested in someone? Check check.
Did they make a 360* turn without letting me know? Oh yeah, wicked check.
So..


Single? Yep.

i am. probably a bit too young for you though.

Ahhh, RomanticSoul, you can't rush anything. And persistence is key as Kojack said. I have actually only met one man on this site, the it factor was not there. We are now friends.

Took me months to find someone that the it factor was there with. Found him on another site. Had some strange stories/dates and made some new friends along the way. So, there was no waste of time for me.

I am coupled with someone. My profile says so. I am not bragging about it, but I enjoy my friends here and being able to vent on the forums.

Hugs, M

I think the single people far outnumber the couples who are here. I'm happy for others happiness in finding someone and I'm not so bitter that I take it as a slap in the face. I notice a trend of bitterness in your posts that is simply offputting.

It's the man's fault if they don't find you attractive cause they ONLY care about looks (which isn't true). Other people are THROWING their relationship in your face just to make you unhappy. The problem is this site, there aren't enough single men who are looking. Everything is everyone else's fault. it gets old and tired. Where the heck is Quityerbytchin when ya need her?

I'm just here to post, hang out, meet some people, chat, if I meet someone special great, if not, I'll meet someone somewhere else. I'm on match, I spend time trying to write witty thoughtful emails and read profiles, I don't get a whole lot of responses. Doesn't get me down. I have met someone there and we're going for drinks. And even if we don't hit it off, she seems like a cool friend to have. Point is I'm not getting my expectations up, great if it happens, and just fine if it doesn't.

But, if they made a 360 degree turn, wouldn't they be pointed towards you again? I think you mean they took 360 degree turn and then MOONWALKED away.

I'm single and still looking.

I originally just wanted to check out this site. But yeah, i'm single.

single huh, is that like a combo at sonic without the fries

We're on here...we are just looking elsewhere...

FYI, negative attitude is SUCH a turn off for either a man or woman.

And I agree with geektothetenth, your previous posts are not helping your odds one bit. How could you honestly be upset that other people have found their true love on here? Are you ****ting me?

I've been here 5 days..1.2.3.4.5..I've had 44 views, 9 mutual matches, 3 returned emails, 1 person thanking me for advice, another thanking me for making them laugh and one that I am very interested in at this point in time. What did I do? I used the mutual match, posted on the forums and put up a profile that expressed who I was through humor. Some will look at it and not like it and others will. I really don't care. I put in my profile that I would also like to meet new friends as well as activity partners. This is a numbers game, sweetie, and in order to get noticed you need to learn how to express that inner beauty, not the inner devil.

Romantic Soul....You are both witty & funny.... ....She was raised to cosmic sound level...I had to get earplugs, triple pane windows, & bolt the bed in place....still, there was a 'whole lotta shakin' goin on'.....

What she wanted from me was that dirty four letter word that I just couldn't give her enough....the word was 'Time'

yep, single and looking, isnt thi a dating website?

oh yaaaaaaay another whiner thread......hmmmmm men dont like you because you dont have long hair, men dont like you because this and that........waaaaaaaaaaaah!!!

Now they are all married or coupled up???? Geeeeeeeeez look around!!! There are tons of singles on this site but you choose to just whine about everything because YOU can't get a man!!!!

I just chopped off my hair again tonight.....I like it!!! I look good and for some odd reason.......MEN LIKE ME!!!! Coincidence????

TOTALLY SINGLE!!!!!!!!!


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Ohhh!!! I'm very needy and desperate and clingy and self centered and i can't dance and I like pizza!!!!!!

did you guys see where I put my socks?

i'm very single too and dont see it changing anytime soon

single here

Been single over two and a half years. Finding starting to get comfortable with it. As long as I stay social and keep communicating with friends I have found it okay. Wouldn't say it was ideal but its getting better.

OKAY!You have to get a grip here.How do you exspect to find someone when you are so down on your self???Quit telling the folks here how much you don't like yourself.And by all means,Quit blaming all the men!!
You would be suprised at what a diffrence it will make.Who cares about the men that don't email you??The only men you need to focuss on are the ones that do.!!
good luck,and bye all means start liking who you are!!

I beat most of you in singleness though.. I've been single for a full 23 years!!!!!!!

I did make an aquintance the other day and I hope there is something there but it looks like that person is unable to get back online at the moment (didnt show up on messenger and has not read my last mail)...

I dont have too high expectations especially because most people on here are from the other side of the planet... but it is still interesting and.. well who knows... if the One Person shows up... there is always airplanes...