Cheating is rough, I've never cheated, been cheated on. But these days everyone's got a back up plan.. so I'm going to start keeping me a back up!! Gotta plan for contingencies.

I cheated once in college. Never again. Karma kicked my a**. Yes, there is such a thing as Karma..

Yup, I'm Buddhist, I know.

Okay...the first post says ya cheated on him...then later you say well ya really didn't... but it doesn't really matter whether you did or didn't.

You want to be with the new guy, cool. You don't want to hurt the old guy, a little late for that but no reason to do further damage. When he wants to know why, tell him you weren't happy. It's the truth and spares him thinking you found someone better.

Word of warning...the new beau knows you had a boyfriend when you got involved with him...he may have difficulty trusting you once you are an item. Who's to say you won't do it to him??? Once a cheat, always a cheat. Just my opinion.

Cheating is a symptom of a problem,
if u were happy u would not have cheated, not saying i agree with cheating but if u were happy i am sure u would not have done it,
if u care for him as a person, u should be honest,
best of luck

Karma's a b!tch, ain't it?

if you were unhappy with ur bf, u should have either solved the issue with him or u should have broken up with him.

now you have a problem on your hands as a consequence of the mistakes you made. accept it, learn from it, and move on.

eep
lust hun
its called lust