I have a date this weekend with an awesome guy from this site . I am really excited but i'm also really scared . It has been over a year since I last actually went out with someone .
He has a 2 hour drive to get here and I worry that he will be disapointed . I am so scared of being rejected . I thought about telling him it was a bad idea and just forgetting the whole thing but I don't really want to do that .
I know it's normal to be nervous .
Any advice or words of encouragment would be appreciated . I'm totally psyching myself out here .

You will be fine hun... Nerves are normal... But please be careful!
Hope you have a blast!

thats great Brandy , be yourself hun, and all will be fine.

it's normal to be nervous, but i'm sure he will be too. just be yourself because you know he already likes you. good luck and be careful.

The same thought will probably cross his mind about every ten miles. Don't worry so much

don't cancel though, b/c you will regret it if you do. plus that may make him think you're not interested. just keep the plans and have a good time. you only live once

Thanks , everyone for the advice and encouragment .

Just hope I can make it to Saturday without backing out . Your right Jessica I know if I back out I will regret it and probably mess up what I know will be a friendship if nothing else .

lol its strange... all the time i hear guys saying stuff like "omg im so scared of getting rejected OMG SHE CANCELLED PLANS WITH ME AHH SHE MUST NOT BE ATTRACTED TO ME AHHH SHE HATES ME BECAUSE I DID SOMETHING WRONG AND IM UGLY THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH MEEEEEEEE" ...while girls can flake out for reasons like you described.
funny, huh? imagine that.
if u back out, there prolly gunna be no way that he WONT think something like that all-caps rant. u'll drive him insane.

awww bless ya ive met 3 guys 1 turned into my boyfriend 2nd was a **** so i jus went home me n the 1st broke up n then met the 3rd off ere and i was still nervouse im still nervouse meeting him still!! dont worry about it its alll natural of course you ganan be alll AHHHHH wats he ganan think thats wat im allways lik b4 he gets 2 mine but once your with em u chill out n start acting normal around him/her, you just gotta make sure your carefull ive been silly tbh and met the guys on the own altho the 3rd guy came out with my mate n her bf, just think if your goinf through this he might be as well and most probs is trust me ur feelin nervouse now jus wait wen its10 mins wen he gets 2 urs your gana go madddddddddddddddddddd lmao soz if its scared u more but u start too child after a lil mad session and ull probs laugh about it with him after a few weeks. itll turn out fine and your very beautifull sooo he wont goo OMG RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN if he did then its his money his wasting on petrol lmao just be yourself breathe lmao and talk itll probs b quiet at firts but just make subjects outta the sky lik OMG ITS A ELEPHANT i allways use that 1 in the silences hehe dnt ask or make noises to make sure he knows your ok lik hummmmm or yawn cough so he knows your not too uncomfortable. allso go do something you both enough so if u both enjoy bowlin go bowling etc etc.. hope i helped :D xxxx good luck any ways and DONT CANCELLLLLLLLL PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEE lmao