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Im just really nervous... I keep gettin told by my girlfriends friends and everything oh theyre gonna love you dont worry!!! And its just I dont wanna say or do the wrong thing and make them hate me..Also her parents are really picky about who she dates you know I think showing just a bit of nervousness is a good sign to parents. it's like you are sayin' you don't think you're 'the sh*t' and all that. People like a person who isn't full of themselves. And like I said, all they are wanting is for you to treat their 'baby' right. 
I agree with geek too. Every event like this builds confidence in who you are, and what you have to offer. Just the fact that you are concerned is REALLY a good sign. shows humility. You'll do great! 
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don't forget to use Sir and Ma'am "yes sir" "no sir" "yes ma'am" "no ma'am" .politeness goes a long ways
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if yer close enough do both
go to one for lunch the other for dinner |
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Edited by
LatinMommy
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Tue 12/11/07 07:36 AM
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I think it's a good idea to go on Christmas day since there will be a good amount of people rather than just her parents and you guys. Try to be positive and respectful. It would be wrong of them to judge you bad from your first visit. So go and try to have some fun meeting her family!!!!!!! Merry Christmas!!!!!!!
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Ok so me and my girlfriend talked I explained everything to her about me being nevous...
She assured me that thre isnt anything to be nervousa bout that her family seriously cant wait to meet me!!! Heres the thing im still REALLY nervous about meeting them I know everyone keeps telling meog youll be fine but like her 2 susters are gonna be home from college and I havent met em yett so im scared what theyll think of me |
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And im also scared her parnts are going to like me because of what I got her for Christmas...
I am like shaking and keep thinking theye gonna hate me when they find out what I goit her for Christmas |
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Meeting her parents will be easy don't worry about it. Just enjoy yourself. But if they have a dog that's who ya have to watch out for
As far as wanting her to meet yours too. Do your parent's do anything for Christmas Eve? My parents always celebrate Christmas Eve with my brother, his wife, 3 kids and myself. Then save Christmas for going to our grandparents. |
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My family has Christmas Eve over my house adn thats where im giving her gift to her...
Thats why im nervous her family is going to hate me because of what I bought her |
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one on christmas, one on christmas eve
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Im praying because I bought her her first car for Christmas!!!1
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Ok what did you buy her?
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Wow hmmm can I date you
But really a car how long have you dated? |
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3 months I bought her a 1998 Honda Civic...
She juss got her license last month so I bought ehr a car |
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Well after only 3 months it is a very big gift to give her. Of course after 1 month with my ex husband I had a diamond ring on my finger
. If they do get upset just say you feel that she is safer with her own car then taking a bus or walking. Anything to show you care.
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Thats all I wanna do is show her family how much I care and love theyre daughter...
Also jusss shw them that I would never do anything to hurt theyre daughter what so ever |
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why dont u try one one christmas and the other christmas eve
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Let's just hope mom and dad didn't buy her a car
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I know for a fact they didnt my best friend knows her parents
And they bought her clothes a new iPOD and a digital camera |
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Do you have to do the BIG MEETING on a holiday? Could you maybe choose a different more relaxed and low key time to meet them? Maybe a simpler get together? Something a little less nerveracking instead of taking on the whole family at one time?
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Well good luck with it. They may take it as you trying to get something from their little girl. But I am sure it isn't what you are after. Just relax and have fun. And if you really are worried you can wait to give it to her after talking to her parents about it. Worse comes to worse you don't give it to her and resell it.
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