Topic: Another Question
Nightace's photo
Sun 12/09/07 11:07 PM
Another question. If the girl I was speaking to. Even though we meet up and well Just say thing's got HOT. But know she told me that we should be friend's and that she meet someone eels. So my question is what should do. Any Advice will help brokenheart

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Sun 12/09/07 11:09 PM
Suit up soldier, it's time to fight for her feelings. Besides, sometimes women do this kind of thing to gauge your true feelings for them. If you just let her go that is telling her that you didn't really care. Now if you fight for her feelings and she still resists you will have to let that one go...there will be others.

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Sun 12/09/07 11:10 PM
What???
Im assuming that you are saying that you are in the friend zone.
The best move to make is to move on to a new girl and try again. There are ways to get out of the friend zone, but it's not worth the effort, trust me. Learn from your experience and don't make the same mistake twice.

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Sun 12/09/07 11:10 PM
dont get in that just be friends thing cause then they all ways say ewww not with you your like a brother to me

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Sun 12/09/07 11:14 PM
Be friends. No more, no less unless....you cannot.

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Sun 12/09/07 11:17 PM
passi you know he cant be her friend, maybe her superman but not friend

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Sun 12/09/07 11:18 PM
well I would ask her if there is a chance for a 3some

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Sun 12/09/07 11:19 PM
or a foursome

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Sun 12/09/07 11:22 PM
It sounds like things are pretty new, so I'd say give her her space for a bit and see where you stand. If friends doesn't work than a relationship never will. If you really think she's worth fighting for, you can give it a shot, but don't go back in with your heart on your sleeve. That's an easy way to get the thing stabbed.ohwell

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Sun 12/09/07 11:27 PM
He can be friends. He just needs to DATE other girls and he can.
BUT that is why I added the precursor...friend if you can because he may not be able to personally. I understand that. I know what you say...is ok. True.

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Sun 12/09/07 11:33 PM
I truly do want to fight for her and she is truly worth it.

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Sun 12/09/07 11:34 PM
Agreed.

...and I really am going to sleep here.
Any minute now.laugh

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Mon 12/10/07 12:33 AM

I truly do want to fight for her and she is truly worth it.

Hey man
WOMEN...are AMAZING. They give us WONDERFUL feelings of passion and hope. This is exactly what this woman is doing to YOU.
However, you must realize that this special feeling is something you can get from literally MILLIONS AND MILLIONS of other women out there. Every woman is a special treasure, and I guarantee you that you can find another one of equal or better calibur than this one.
This woman is giving you these feelings, but you have failed to give her the same. Try again with someone else! Get a fresh start, a clean slate.
Only when you get your mind off of THIS woman will she get the space/chance/opportunity to get her mind ON YOU. It's the paradox of desire.