Is it a crime to love someone. Does it matter what is in between their legs or it'd about their personality which draws u to them regardless. Open mind?

You're in the "Rate My Profile" forum. Your profile says you're a woman looking for a woman but your pictures are of a man. You might want to change that. Also put more about yourself, your interests, and what you are looking for in a woman.

As far as your question... To each his/her own. However if you are questioning it, it's a sign that you are not fully comfortable with your sexual orientation, or unsure about it. Maybe counseling might help clear that up for you or whoever the question is referring to.

Welcome to Mingle and good luck to you.

Thank you for the response. Well I was asking in terms of how others are coping. I am comfortable with my sexual orientation but my family isn't. Well I am a Butch lesbian reason I look so masculinebut thank you for the response.

Sorry about that, your second picture gave me that impression. I apologize if that offended you!

Maybe start a new topic in the "Misc advice" forum. This is still the rate my profile forum and your less likely to get the responses you're looking for.

A lot of families struggle with their offspring not growing up the way they intended. That's life, kind of s harsh reality, but it's really their problem not yours. I'm not sure about your culture, and I'm straight, so it would be difficult for me to comment on your situation.

I do know what it's like however to not have family accept you for who you are. My father disowned me because I wasn't the daughter he thought I should be, lol. I can laugh about it now but dealing and coping with that throughout my life was very difficult. Getting support from those who did accept me and also a little professional support really helped in that matter.

Best of luck to you.