I was on another site, and this was posted by a man. There were many answers.

"Ladies, why is it that your Pu*** seems more important than your heart?"

A woman will make a man wait for months and months for sex but giving them all access to thier heart. It is a lot harder for me to understand and get over, when some one treats my heart or the love that I am giving or offering bad than it is to figure out why she did not call me back after sex. (not that it has happened)

I found it interesting. Had to think about it for a moment. It is actually a logical question for some men.

Any comments?

Kat

Okay, I'll start:

I have never thought of it from a mans point of view before?

I also do not, have not been one to give it up too soon. Younger OR older. Except for those two times when I was drunk. I still hate that it happened, and it has been many years.

For me...I must have some kind of feelings before I even begin to move on it. I will admit to thinking about it. But, I must know someone pretty well before I will have sex with them. Sex is just sex. I can do that by myself, if I so choose. But, sex for me is valued and cherished for a man that is worthy and trusted.

So....yes. In a way; I guess the heart is put out there first, taking a chance on being hurt before having my values compromised. My values to myself are my soul, so to speak. Harder to get over. The heart heals. If I give in too soon, I may hate myself for a very long time. That will be my fault, and my fault alone. Only me to blame. But, if my heart gets broken a little, I can blame him, as well as myself.

Losing my pride will effect me longer than losing a piece of my heart.

So....is my furry friend more valuable than my heart? Absolutey not! But, they go hand in hand for me. For me...the best sex; involves my heart.
Is it worth taking a chance? Absolutely. Heart...then sex. Puuurfection.

Kat

Its a logical question if you take acid on a regular basis

Woman are emotional beings, they feel most everything in a relationship. So getting into their hearts is always easier than getting into bed.

Sex is not what makes a relationship work. Its the emotional connection that you have with your partner. If a woman cant feel you in here heart, shes especially not gonna let you go further with her.

Acid..

I would love to think that is MOST women.
But there are men that think women are playing hard to get, or other games because of this.

You sound very astute. Thank you.
Kat

my heart is usually the last to go!!!

LMAO!!!

Oh well.....I tried.

I think I have become a thread killer in my old age. I cannot get any conversation going. Sighhhhhhh.....
Kat