Topic: see a girl that i like,walk up to her | |
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and touch her hand and start a conversation when she is walking to her class?
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And just say hi... |
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dude you got the right idea. while in class she just maybe thinking about that dude that walked her to class. say whats up then peace out.
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so what should i do tomorro, cause i was thinking about it last night
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talk/walk with her before class. like you were thinkin.
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what do you mean by touching her hand?????
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what do you mean by touching her hand????? Yeah I wondered about that part, too. That would creep me out. I hate it when strangers touch me! |
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ya no stranger would be touching my hand!!!
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I have major space issues....
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It's not space issues, I think most people would feel weird if someone just came up to them and started grabbing their hand.
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dogg. your idea was good just stick with it. oh any doubts on the human contact from a stranger watch this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vr3x_RRJdd4
im sure he doesnt mean some grab the hand stalkerish thing |
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It's not space issues, I think most people would feel weird if someone just came up to them and started grabbing their hand. Oh I just hate strangers touching me at all. I think I might catch something, LOL |
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I think with all the weird stuff in the world we've closed ourselves off.
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I don't think I would touch her. Maybe just start out by saying something to her, but don't touch her. As you can tell, us women don't like to be touched in the beginning by someone we don't know. We are strange creatures...so just keep your hands to yourself and just talk!!
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dogg. your idea was good just stick with it. oh any doubts on the human contact from a stranger watch this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vr3x_RRJdd4 im sure he doesnt mean some grab the hand stalkerish thing Different dynamic. In the vid, the guy holds up a sign for free hugs. he is being open to being hugged, he is not walking up to random people hugging them. He is not initiating the hugs, just allowing people to hug him and the other people are the ones hugging him. In this way, there is no invasion of space. |
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I think with all the weird stuff in the world we've closed ourselves off. Yes like when a young women is pulled into a train station at noon and raped (that happened in philly a while ago). Or someone get's their pocket picked, a student near where I work was sexually assulted at like 6 pm in a public building on campus recently....that kind of stuff makes me wary of strangers and careful of my surroundings. It's called common sense, there are a lot of scumbags in the world. |
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geektothetenth:
You do have a good point. If a man I didn't know came up to me and grabbed my hand, he might be in for a big surprise. Some people are particular about their personal space. LOL |
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I think the best way to get to me, would be to drop a 5 on the counter after I order my white mocha. Dont even say anything.
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geektothetenth: You do have a good point. If a man I didn't know came up to me and grabbed my hand, he might be in for a big surprise. Some people are particular about their personal space. LOL Exactly! |
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Edited by
katydid34
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Sun 12/09/07 01:11 PM
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I think the best way to get to me, would be to drop a 5 on the counter after I order my white mocha. Dont even say anything. Hmm, I don't know. I think I might be kind of freaked if a guy did that. Unless he was super cute. Then I'd think it was cool. However, I wouldn't trust a super cute guy who bought me coffee, they don't do stuff like that.:) |
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