Is this a dating site ? Because that's what I thought it was,,,or is it a sex site because so far I've been propossitioned from 2 different fellas.
How do you find a genuine fella whith a specific age who's looking for the same things I am...

Hi I'm Kathleen

Welcome to the asylum known as mingle.

I wish you the best of luck here.

This is used more as a social site. But yup us guys get those and worse messages too.

Set youf filters to limit who can message you. I think it's in the full site.
https://mingle2.com/inbox/filters

The internet is much the same as anywhere.
It's simply a matter of learning how to sort
the wheat from the chaff.

Best of luck.

Hi Kathleen
Because 2 different fellas had proposition you, you now think this is a sex site? If you think the proposition is vulgar, click the report button and block them.

Mingle2 is a dating site that has morphed into a social site. Join us in the forums and meet the Mingle2 community. Lots of new members seem to think that the forums are for whining.. nope. The forums are here so members can meet other members and make friends. A few had even met in the forums and lived happily ever after... miracles do happen after all. Thank you M2.

Anyway, welcome
Stay if you like
Happy New Year!

Welcome on board

As said before, stay safe in the forums

Thanks guys you's have already helped so much,,, I'm just new but I will be reporting messages I don't think are appropriate,, have a lovely night everyone

welcome
Follow Rosie's advice and hope to see you posting here in forums

well just want to say that. some of us just want to get to know and talk to women. i hope you have some good luck in finding someone from the site.

yes agree most of us has bad experience.its virtual world.
be safe and patience.

Look at this for what it is. It's a commercial site. On a dairy cow, the udder is the business end of the cow. Same can be said here with breasts and other parts of the human body. Those propossitions are most likely from computer created profiles that most likely don't even exist in physical form. I have met 3 people from this site so far, and I can tell you the words and pictures as shown on the site do not match physical reality. One of my meets had a picture of an older white lady turned out to be black and 30+ years younger. I would have took her on, but her wanting children was a no to me. I just cant start another family with someone that is younger then my adult children. Most pictures or profiles on this site are simply doctored up to look better then what they are. Maybe one out of 10 here are real and exist in physical form. The rest is just a computer construct. People have and will invent ways to make a living. Thus the need to look at this as a commercial site.