I know this may sound ishh...but seriously? From the time I joined this website the men I meet here are mediocre. None is serious about who they say they are or what they want. They all just want to play around...nothing serious. Am an African woman, born again and I love God and Jesus. Am 37years for the record and I really wantto settle and get married but of late its just getting hard. Even among the believers I can't seem to connect with the right one...those that come only want sex or sex pics?! Its just...disheartening...they claim to be born again...am not judging, I just want to understand. Is there any real man who loves Jesus enough to per sue a pure online relationship without all this absurd behavior?? Please help me..
Or maybe am looking in the wrong places...

my dear than for being able to express your self.
its quite unfortunate that you have been into the wrong kind of men in this forum
such people are capable of tarnishing the image of the good men as well..
what is ment for for you God will always bring it to you, so do not compromise or give up, Good christian men still exit and definitely you will get one soon.
i always believe in life of example, everyone is doing it does not mean i must do it too. am not a saint either, i urge you to persevere and pray, God will get you your perfect man.

thanks

lucky