I agree. I spend most of my life milking cows, and it is the udder that is the business end of a dairy cow. The photos with boobs on here is the business end to get attention to milk the unsuspecting fool to be. That is why so many people here leave early, yet the information this site gets keeps on living.

What I want = I want management/owners or whoever is in charge of this, to remove the profiles from the viewed list of people who viewed me, that are not real. You know who they are and you know for what purpose they are on here. They are on here to create traffic. At least make it so the public can filter the profiles who so called viewed you but really didn't. I don't want to be talking to a man who has 30+ female profiles on here, then uses multiple platforms for the purpose of gaining information from me to sell or to outright scam me after spending countless hours talking to a woman profile constructed by a man.

I'm going to say fapping themselves to death from all the T and A they get to see from scam profiles.....

I hope they stocked up on baby wipes and germX

sure beats..... what I've seen used.

Tom4UHere, I just joined Mingle2 a couple days ago. I'm still learning about this site, just the same as all others lol. Tysvm dear

I don't know about most real men, but I'm afraid of women. I find it difficult to read minds and alot of times I need a translator. I mean I can hold my own in conversationalist girl, but by no means am I fluent.

But that's just me.

I can tell that the powers that be have done something to help with this. The site has been under DOS attack for a long time now. Many of these profiles that pop up were generated by the attacker. They can generate thousands of profiles at a time.

When you can generate thousands of profiles at a time, many will slip through the cracks. You wind up with many nudges, messages and all around junk that the service just can't handle. DOS attacks also cause the site to be very slow and even go down. Because the server just can't handle everything.

I noticed yesterday that I wasn't getting as many annoying nudges and views as I've been getting. The site is moving a little faster. They've done something. Cloudflare I think. Because I'm getting browser check when I sign in now.

As far as them removing profiles, they remove boatloads a day. But when a site is under DOS attack, as fast as they can remove 100, 300 will take its place. Cloudflare stops that.

Try Google translate


And the site seems slow and out of order to me today even the msgs are coming through that way

Same with me. My messages are not in order anymore. When I answer a message, it winds up on top of the message I answered. I've been having trouble with time stamps too. But overall, at least on my end, it's a little faster and not as irritating with junk messages, nudges, 100's of fake views.

Currently, much of the internet is experiencing DDOS.
With many sites having the same issues as mingle2.


As for REAL MEN?

Real men, and real women, are posting in Geezer's thread.

It's been taking a while to see the post for me. The nudges and such on my end are working.

The site is Slow. Also the times are off on some messages.

The Real men are in California .

The same, to a greater extent, is true for women as well. I have got a number of messages from females (without reading my profile) for hookup, night party, fun in bed etc. Such kind of people don't belong to a particular gender. For, bad/counterfeit people are found among all genders. It is debatable as to which gender is more towards that end
The fact, however, is that if you are true and sincere you will eventually meet the people you expect. This isn't restricted to this site only. This is a universal phenomenon. You might have experienced that. And those who have, they affirm this thesis.
P.S less than 5% people read and understand profile

I guess it all depends how gullible you are?

The site provides the ability to block and report.
Anyone concerned with the quality of the contacts you are getting can always block and report.

Frankly, I got tired of blocking and reporting.
Now, I just ignore.

The important thing to remember is that if theyare not a 'match', seem fake, just move to the next.

Condider that all your contacts are bunk. Wait for the ONE that stands out to you.
Chances are, that model is not going to be interested in you.
Put your ego aside for a moment and realize where you are.
You're on a FREE dating site.

The "nudges" is kinda useless I know. I never send nudges. But at the same time, I don't understand what's creepy about it? A nudge is really nothing more than a flirt. If two people nudge each other, it's kinda like saying to each other, lets talk.

I don't mean this to sound insulting, But, in one sense of the word reading, a few words in a profile is kinda useless in my experience. Me, I will not write unless I read first. But at the same time, your profile, for the most part, is how you see yourself. Not how others see you that are just meeting you for the first time.

In other words, your profile is a snapshot of how you see you. Most profiles are not really an accurate view of who the person really is. In my years of online dating, I've met only a handful of women who really knew themselves and didn't mind putting it in writing.

I'm reasonably sure there are men that are the same way. But I can only speak from the women I've met. And most of them were not true to what they wrote about themselves.

Takes a real woman to find a real man. So now you know why you can't find any.

Real men are in Canada. !