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Bo∆πocks , cough
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Haha
But yeah I think that is more of a situational thing than a men or women thing. |
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Hi Arfvedson, my previous post was aimed at the topic, not your post sir
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As Rockgnome already said, everybody has insecurities in one way or another.
Also, the guys that say, "Bro's before Hoes." Usually have a player mentality, and aren't looking for a relationship. Or, are single and don't want their fellow Bro's to be happy in their relationship. Kinda like misery loves company thing. As far as women's camaraderie groups, or the like...what are the Red Hats? |
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I spent most of my life in America, dealing with American males and females. And I can say for certain, that males do as much or more sniping at other males as females do. Much more, actually.
In addition, despite hearing phrases like "bros before hoes" many times, I've yet to witness any males who actually followed through with the pretended idealism of that. What I've seen instead, is two things: First, as soon as someone uses the term "ho" to refer to females, they've already established that they think of females as prostitutes, for whom they have no respect. The term "ho" is a slang shortening of the word "whore," after all. Next, in actual events, I've always found that male loyalty to fellow males, ends abruptly when the opportunity to have sex with a female is at hand. I've never once seen an American male turn down sex with another male's official mate, if the opportunity presented. If anything, what I've seen is that most American males take such opportunities as being a chance to show that they are more valuable than their nominal "friend," who they also consider to be a competitor for mates. |
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Women can make community feel a lot more like a family. Men are usually doing things that I consider more fun and inspiring.
In my town, there is a street called Killam, and that is where people go to kill each other. It’s in the newspaper frequently and I hear gunshots every two weeks. It is rare that women are involved. On this website, nearly all of the men and women I have met have been very good people. |
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