My mother is 85 and just moved into a nursing home. Knowing my mother the men are probably getting a lot of activity in the past few weeks.

That made me giggle. There's hope for me yet!!!

I don't think I'll have dentures.

Yeah, I might still be getting some in my later years. No wait, I’m not getting any now!

Assisted living/nursing home - captive audience.

Chillax, nana.

I wasn't being disrespectful to seniors.
I was giving OPie directions on where to
find them.

To state the blatant obvious - it is down to being attracted to them its no conspiracy really.

All other excuses are futile as some people can have ulterior motives regardless of age, its just that simple.

I bet she can run faster than some of the fellas. Just hope she can run faster than some of their wives.

for joy

Isn't joy rather young?

Objectifying people happens in many forms.

I personally don't enjoy being an object, and I work not to objectify others. Mainly, because I'm too easily aware that I'm doing it, and I'm always angered by it.

If a guy goes after an older woman, BECAUSE she's an older woman, then he's objectifying her. He doesn't care about her, the individual, he only cares that she represents whatever it is that thrills him about older women.

That doesn't mean that all younger people who get romantically involved with older ones are doing that, of course. Some people just love each other.

It doesn't even have to be "love." It can be attraction. I agree with everything else you're saying, though. There is a wide gap between loving and respecting INDIVIDUALS and targeting a segment of the population. Attraction, lust, love or whatever should be organic between two people.

I approve of your correction/addendum completely. Thanks!

*orgasmic

I used to love dating older women!..... now that I'm over a century, I can't.... they're all dead now.

Many of us are more "alive" than ever.

well I hope so! you're not over 102.

I'm still trying to figure why people even bother responding to topics like this.

The OP already deactivated.

I knew he would, long before anyone bothered to respond.

it's still a topic. I don't care if OP is around or not.

They are phishing for info....to find better targets....or improve their come-on to the unwary targets.

So basically, no matter how you reply, you're actually helping the scammers. You may not think so, but you are.

Trust me, I know how they think.

I can reply to topics without getting fooled by phishers.

And, I'm here for fun, I don't analyze the various motives of weird people.