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Topic: Dating Co-workers
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Fri 08/17/18 08:03 PM
Well this heading explains it all..

What is everyone's opinion on dating a coworker?
Good idea or bad idea.


MK2's photo
Fri 08/17/18 08:18 PM
its very bad idea
never date your co worker or your neighbor
someone has to move later...... old school here

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Fri 08/17/18 08:21 PM
Well if you work at a stripper club, might get a little awkward watching your honey do a lapdance for some guy... Just say'n.


It can work out but it's best that you have options to depart the company if things go south. And hope they don't become your boss while you are dating... laugh

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Fri 08/17/18 10:18 PM

Well if you work at a stripper club, might get a little awkward watching your honey do a lapdance for some guy... Just say'n.


It can work out but it's best that you have options to depart the company if things go south. And hope they don't become your boss while you are dating... laugh

Lol i could see the issue with the women being a stripper. I would be like go get that money Yo we need it? :joy:

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Fri 08/17/18 10:22 PM
Actually i have the hots for a women at work , she is a supervisor also aka makes more money than me lol .. so we flirt alot with each other but she is single and seems lonely as i am myself..
I thinking of making a move , i could always move to a different department but if things went badly afterwards.. i dont plan on changing jobs either

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Fri 08/17/18 10:24 PM
I use to bone my secretary.


But yeah...
It's probably a bad idea to date coworkers.


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Fri 08/17/18 10:26 PM

I use to bone my secretary.


But yeah...
It's probably a bad idea to date coworkers.




Sexataries are good to have... laugh :thumbsup:

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Fri 08/17/18 10:28 PM
Lol

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Fri 08/17/18 10:29 PM
I met my exhusband at work. :no_mouth: We work 6 and 7 days a week. Work and home was my life back then.

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Fri 08/17/18 10:32 PM

I met my exhusband at work. :no_mouth: We work 6 and 7 days a week. Work and home was my life back then.

Yeah thats the only bonus to me if your working the same schedules it kinda of convenient to me and her. I also have the option to work 7 days a week

oldkid46's photo
Sun 08/19/18 08:25 PM
VERY DANGEROUS!!!!! Have we learned nothing from the "Me Too" movement and the destruction it can bring on a man?? An accusation can cost you your job and your career; is she even close to worth that??

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Sun 08/19/18 08:39 PM
I think it depends on what the relationship is at work and how closely you work together ...et cetera.

If one is superior over the other, its a terrible idea because it leaves the appearance of preferential treatment and the temptation to take out relationship issues at work.

If you both are private people and able to emotionally separate work roles from personal roles on the job, I dont see it as an issue.

the biggest no for me is just because I am too private to worry about what people at work know or are assuming about our relationship.


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Sun 08/19/18 08:48 PM
bad idea..

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Sun 08/19/18 09:18 PM

What is everyone's opinion on dating a coworker?
Good idea or bad idea.

Depends on your conflict resolution skills, communication ability, and what type of person you are (most especially emotionally speaking).

If you have a tendency to be lead by your emotions and emotional needs, manipulate people into sex or relationships and then dump them, all as an extension of your ego, it's probably going to cause problems at work.

If you can communicate like an adult, approach relationships in a mature way, as well as handle conflict and have some kind of discipline over your emotional drivers, there's going to be less of a downside.

dreamerana's photo
Mon 08/20/18 12:13 AM
Is there any policy in regards to this at your place of employment?

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Mon 08/20/18 12:18 AM
Edited by rhaegar199 on Mon 08/20/18 01:02 AM
I think it depends on what the relationship is at work and how closely you work together ...et cetera.

If one is superior over the other, its a terrible idea because it leaves the appearance of preferential treatment and the temptation to take out relationship issues at work.

If you both are private people and able to emotionally separate work roles from personal roles on the job, I dont see it as an issue.

the biggest no for me is just because I am too private to worry about what people at work know or are assuming about our relationship. ...

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Mon 08/20/18 12:47 AM
I did that once. Got married to her. It was awful.

frustrated

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Mon 08/20/18 06:39 AM
I never wanted to date my coworkers. I liked them, but most was married are in a relationship. I worked around Professional Men. They had good family values. There was only a few in my office.

I Don't think dating a coworker is a good idea. May cause problems in the workplace should you have a bad break up or you get really aggravated with the man.

I have had plenty of dates, without choosing one from. My Work !


mightymoe's photo
Mon 08/20/18 07:47 AM

Well this heading explains it all..

What is everyone's opinion on dating a coworker?
Good idea or bad idea.


I think it depends on how much you value your job...if you think wasting work time hitting on a coworker is ok, then obviously you don't care about your job anyway, so go for it and then you can find a new job after you're fired or have to quit...

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Mon 08/20/18 07:50 AM
Don't poop where ya eat. It's that simple.

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