Hi guys, good morning. To me you find bar flies in bars party people in clubs. If thats what you are into then thats the place to be. probably the best thing I've herd so far is do the things you like to do where you want to be and that will put you into contact with people who have the same head. Also never mis the opertunity to talk to new people. You never know who you might meet or who they might know.Also "down to earth" is in the eye of the beholder.

It’s funny but this is one of my biggest frustrations, I’m a full time father of three with a demanding career. Not only does my travel hinder my dating ability but when I do get out I don’t frequent bars or clubs, don’t do the speed dating thing so I resort to keeping my eyes open at the grocery store. Even that seems to be a challenge; believe it or not, with having three kids that in it’s self is a turn off for women these days (most). So I’m stuck in this rut myself, how and where do I find someone that shares the same clicks, interests and passions that I do? Not only is that a tall order but then we have the personality compatibility factor, sexual drive, and goal orientated and so on. I guess for me I’ve just put it in the big guys hands and patiently wait to catch her eye and believe me, It’s Christmas Eve once again and I long for that moment.
P.S. Sorry for book everyone, I talk alot and oh yeah can't forget communication skills and ability to show affection.

It's 'cause all guys want an angel, and angels fly high with their heads in the clouds...

GET IT?!?! They aren't DOWN TO EARTH 'cause they're angels from HEAVEN! It's a play on words!!!!!

.....shut up

Merry Christmas Eve everyone!

my 2 cents whether you wanted it or not

Im a single father of 2 wonderful kids and i find lots of great women. Most of the best women i have ever had the privilege to get to know are right here on jsh. and the way i meet them is in the forums being my normal acehole self. Im open opinionated and sometimes just down right sarcastic. But when someone says something that catches my attention i email them and let them know that we do share something in common. Which doesnt just bring an email out of the dark its steming from an earlier conversation in the forums.
Now off site is a little different but i do meet very down to earth women. and i open my mouth and tell them how nice or wonderful or how wrong i think they are.(cause like it or not women respect a man who speaks up and is heard and is above all else honest) Granted this might not work for all people but it truelly works for me
And in closing above all else be yourself.
To thy own self be true
and she will find you.

peace and love
ace

i now relent my soap box to the next person.

wow did i actually kill this thread. i must have said it all.
picks up soap box and storms off to his corner

Dont worry you will find your Angel soon enough. Someone witha good head on her shoulders that will know how to treat you right..all I can say is dont rush it...she will come your way soon enough...good luck

i love parties... sometimes when i can't sleep at night i like to get up dress up like the wiggles and dance until i feel better....

i come across alot of those girls
and yet wonder why i am not taken by them
<3
someday i will fall in true heavenly love..
*le sigh*

well for starters, if your like most of the guys here, your probably sending off an "I'm gods gift to women vibe", and they pick up on that, also if your cocky in anyway on your profile, if your talking up yourself too much or making it sound like your the king, your not going to get any women to respond, make sure that you aren't sounding like a dog or a player in your profile, and i bet you'll start getting better results...

oh one more thing on these sites, if you want women to respond or check out your profile, you need to be proacive, you need to use the tools on this site to find them, they will not find you, there are enough guys on here to look at, you need to put yourself out there, use the mutual match, send emails and such, these gals will not seek you out all the time, make some connections,just remember this is no different than real life, you have to approach them, they will not approach you, its just that simple.

i gotta agree with cov on this one. id rather have a man who is man enough to speak up. i respect that more. tell it like it is.