There are so many freaking perverts out there it's not even funny. There are lots of dogs and predators and I look like a Milkbone. Seems to me like if you have to pay out of your pocket for something like Match.com or Eharmony.com for someone who is really serious about finding their match. I have few problems, ideas, issues with most people. I'm not a person that feels hatred but it's time for me to stop being naive and knock off some losers (You know who you are). I would have appreciated more sincerity from men on these free sights... Cest la vie. Good luck to those out there that are really trying... My suggestion to you is: BE PICKY!

Peace,
Lisa

thanks for the advice lisa...

I paid for a membership at a site and myself all the people I talked to were just getting tons of spam emails ALL the time through those sites, thats it. No real people.

So, I'll stay here where it is free. Thanks for the thoughts though

You're absolutely right! I had to deal with one fake already. And if I thought I could get away with it, I'd tell all women what city in Ohio he lives in, too, so they can avoid his fake, cheesy lines. It's always better to have no email than to have to deal with some jerk.

Match is ok but really is not that much different than free sites. Not a very good experience there. I'm also one of those that eHarmony wouldn't even let on because of my personality survey. Plentyoffish was actually pretty decent. JSH has been the friendliest place I've seen of the 4. Haven't dated anyone off of here but the quality of people (from a guys perspective) seems really reasonable.

it has been a great experience for me here got to know lots of really nice people here male and female
they are friendly polite and not creepy well at least on my end
not one creep yet

I guess we all see and experience things differently
no matter who we are

Sorry girls Hope you do have a good experience here on this site in the future

i just want to say not all guys are freaks they give a bad name to the good and honest ones but anyway good luck on you search

I'm not sure what the big deal here is.We all have are prefrances,That is not a crime.Or is it??If it is,than we are all in trouble.TRUE LOVE HAS NO LOOKS INVOLVED!!
YOU CAN"T PICK WHO YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH!!THAT IS A BLESSING FROM GOD!! HE CREATDE US ALL,AND TRUST ME<HE MADE NO MISTAKES.JUST CHILL!!

Aloha: You're welcome.
Others people: Thanks for your input.
wolfchic: I have no idea what you're talking about.