Oh, I thought he was just another guy complaining about his wife, hoping to get some on the side. Pof is full of those. No pic is the biggest indicator. You would be surprised at how many guys just can't figure out how to upload a pic.

Many of you are suggesting he play the emotional game with her; convince her she is the most special woman in his world!! Sounds to me like the emotional dating games on how to get in her pants. Some men have played that game most of their lives and you call them "players" because it isn't real only manipulation of your emotions.

Some women actually enjoy sex and are comfortable with their sexuality. They do not need someone to manipulate their emotional feelings so they can justify that it is ok for them to have sex.

To the OP: learn how to sexually rock your wife's world!! Take your time to build her sexual excitement and then give her multiple orgasms. She will be back for more and your sex life will be much improved. If all you want is to get your rocks off, then buy a new toy and let your wife find a man who knows how to take care of her needs!