They were oatmeal, nice and soft.

Yummy!!!!!

No, you need to come over and get some for yourself!~!!!!

first off i don't want to change you...........why would i if i changed you then i would loose what attracted me to you in the first place........i just wnat to KNOW you on every level......as for who's he with what's he doing.......hmmmm that just speaks of emotional and intimate insecurity......not me i figure if your gonna go out your gonna do it whether i fret or not.....have at it and woe be to you if i find out and if i don't i'm a firm believer in what i don't know won't hurt me cause if it does well then i know and back to woe be unto you.......LOL. As for standing beside or behind i ahve to admitt every so often i want to trail behind......all the better to watch your ass.........LOL

explain women wander when imaginations soar........personally i'm pretty imaginative and i don't think you'd be wandering....

Too much pressure.......guess what darling lifes all about being between a rock and a hard place learn to love it because if it comes easy it's probably not worth it

cute the way you duck the pressure...flipped it on me.


Women wander when their imagination soars over their heads and can't be grasped.

letting a good thing just peaceably be has great reward.....

....I see this as the key to settling most perceived differences that are not really a problem waiting to explode and leave a mess that doesn't exist.

We think and feel differently, men and women and all too often the past is brought forward and not actual, but cautious and alarmed feelings attached to an event that bring back emotions that don't belong in what's really going on in the here and now.

No amount of chit chat will fix it, because we think differently and don't know what the other thought, felt and knows about anything similar in the past.



I embrace the notion that the past is what freed us up to meet and explore one another.

My hope is in the notion that we all should be able to breathe it all in and breathe a sigh of relief without the tensions of the past.

Riding off into the sunset of our winters of life are much more pleasant when peace reigns.

no wut i meen???

Humm well had it happen to me I'm a very curious person. If I'm gonna be with someone I want to know what makes them tick there likes dislikes. There childhood, some of the past what they want in the future. I want one that can be honest with me and open. But have had it happen that they did not like questions and did not just drill them just some here and there trying to learn about them. But they too offense to it and well bye bye that went. But I'm just me and not gonna change being curious will never happen.

Well, ok, here's the deal for me....

I ask questions about EVERYTHING, because I want to know. I want to know FOR A REASON. Think about it, if I ask how you like your burger cooked or if you like mayo or ketchup, it is so I can prepare and present it to you just the way you prefer.

The question may seem menial to you *Tom* at the time, but at some point or another, he would benifit from answering graciously and gleefully, if you will.

I guess I look at it this way, if someone asked me what I liked/disliked, I would count it a compliment that the person was interested enough to give a heck. But.........that's just me...

hmmmm but of course i'm cute.........I'm me.

As for the past it's what creates us the past shapes the present and molds the future.........I want to know what makes you what you are that way i have an idea of what you'll be.

I accept you for you something drew me to you in the first place and that i don't wantto change but i do want to know what made you that way.... it's my curious nature.......LOL

As for my imagination i've never had it casue me need to wander however it caused need for explanation a time or two.......

As for peace since when is a an ebb and flow of conv not a peaceful thing......

Your right men and women do think diffrently which is why we ask ?'s............see it's still your fault.......

I know it's all my fault. I teach to much


But you got a guy, so I ain't tellin' ya much

But, I'm sure our conversation has revealed a lot for everyone to consider, and , hey, you are cute and I enjoyed the chat.


Great questions, Your Icyness

yes i do have an awsome guy............surprise i am loveable i guess.......LOL

thanks for the answers love.......

always a pleasure to chat with you hon