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Topic: Dh shutting down
Fervid_heart Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 489	Thu 04/26/18 07:31 PM
the rule book IS the welcome mat, Fervid.. wipe your feet on it and wave... I dont take issue with the Rules. Its the sites rules, not the people on it. I doubt they wrote the rules themselves.

4evershopping Joined Thu 11/14/13 Posts: 36	Thu 04/26/18 07:32 PM Edited by 4evershopping on Thu 04/26/18 07:32 PM
the rule book IS the welcome mat, Fervid.. wipe your feet on it and wave... Omg🤣 I gotta stay away from u.. ur gonna get me kicked out.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Thu 04/26/18 07:32 PM
Wow. You guys are new here and just complain about the site. We have tried to welcome you guys. Would you appreciate it if it was reversed? If we went to your site and did this? Try getting involved and get to know members here. honestly? Tried to welcome us? By posting the rules to us on multiple occasions? I, however, did try to be kind letting you know I remembered you from my previous trip into Mingle ... only to get lumped in with the generalizations. I didn't lump you at all. Mingle has mods and rules. People posted them to help. If I remember, I even answered questions. No one lumped you in with anything. I remembered you asking me and I asled if I knew you because I didn't recognize you. If I missed something after that, it is simply I missed it This isnt lumping? I swear. This place thinks we are an illiterate group. How many people have to post the rules to us, or some portion of them . Maybe because many don't pay attention. Some didn't last through the night lets try rewording this ... "Because some dont follow the rules, we assume neither will the rest of you" Would I, as a women, be judged as a terrorist because two women committed a terrorist act? Didnt think so. If it doesn't apply, don't worry It is a general note ffs Exactly. It is a general note for all the newbies. New members are still coming in. ffs No, it is a GENERALIZATION of the people who came in and others that may come from the site. Yes, we are a rowdy bunch. Yes, there were people who got out of line rather quickly. Yes, your rules are different. Yes, we should respect the rules of the site whether we understand the reasoning to them or not. Heck, I even made a post about how some reacted on the other site, myself included, when our section of the forums were "invaded" by non-regulars as some of you appear to be doing now. But none of that says not a one of us can 'assimilate' to your way. No Drama, just making a valid point. It is because fh os different than here. I didn't lump you. If it didn't apply to you, then it wasn't meant for you. You lumped yourself with the illiterate group part. I said some. Maybe you missed what happened in another part of the forums. People are posting rules because this site is different than dh. That's it. Nothing more

Integrityis1st Joined Sun 07/24/16 Posts: 9956	Thu 04/26/18 07:35 PM
what an absolutely splendid site. yes

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 9012	Thu 04/26/18 07:36 PM
the rule book IS the welcome mat, Fervid.. wipe your feet on it and wave... oh not even close

Blondey111 Joined Sun 01/27/13 Posts: 9012	Thu 04/26/18 07:38 PM
Sooooo .. rules aside .., how is everything else ... ((((((To those with ptsd)))))

ticky7 Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 19	Thu 04/26/18 07:39 PM
Ya'll well, if it isn't my old friend ity. how are you my dear. i guess you can't wait to plant your tulips. cheers and have a splendid night.

ticky7 Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 19	Thu 04/26/18 07:40 PM
the rule book IS the welcome mat, Fervid.. wipe your feet on it and wave... I dont take issue with the Rules. Its the sites rules, not the people on it. I doubt they wrote the rules themselves. what an excellent grasp of the situation.

westy602 Joined Mon 10/10/16 Posts: 469	Thu 04/26/18 07:41 PM
the rule book IS the welcome mat, Fervid.. wipe your feet on it and wave... Omg🤣 I gotta stay away from u.. ur gonna get me kicked out. Lol babe... look into my eyes..now come here and hug me...

wilywild Joined Wed 04/25/18 Posts: 25	Thu 04/26/18 07:41 PM
i don't facking have pstd!!! just don't go there with me. i'm just a lil emotional right now..i don't do calm often either soo i'm fubar'd i am fine on the other side though. hope you are good toots

Fervid_heart Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 489	Thu 04/26/18 07:43 PM
"Maybe because MANY don't pay attention. Some didn't last through the night " No, I actually did catch very little of a poster already suspended. The one person I saw get out of line. I wouldnt ever argue the rules, as I said. I argue the perception of assumptions made by the consistant reposting of the rules. We can read. We are capable of not only aggressive playful banter but intelligent conversation. Questions as to why tge rule or defining a rule can be easily answered by the Mods, and just as easily respected by the remaining members. Because we are afterall members as well.

Fervid_heart Joined Tue 04/24/18 Posts: 489	Thu 04/26/18 07:46 PM
Sooooo .. rules aside .., how is everything else ... ((((((To those with ptsd))))) mt current work schedule sucks. Been here for 8 hours, have another 17 to go ... but i'll get a 2 hour (3 if im lucky) break in about 4 hours

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Thu 04/26/18 07:46 PM
The New Members Welcome Area is for welcoming, not for drama. Seeing that this topic has gotten out of control, it is being locked. ~ David, Site Moderator

ohfralala Joined Wed 04/25/18 Posts: 74	Thu 04/26/18 07:47 PM
Sooooo .. rules aside .., how is everything else ... ((((((To those with ptsd))))) I’m coping with french toast and The Office