I delete who views me every day!

81 views today alone. I wish these men were active on the Forums.

Just looking not talking.

oh boy
what's up with your luck ?

I think they call that perving here i would view a profile and not message too most of the time. And if perving means viewing a lot of times its my fat fingers on my mobile thats been doing it instead of the topic it clicks on the profile

Not luck. Most Men view women on date sites. Very common.

I had one man view overly day by day. Stalker.

Fat fingers? Oh please

But we have something in common, hitting profiles by accident

Why not just message the woman if she doesn't have you blocked out, by her Filter setting.

Because i'm a perv.

Sometimes they are,but they are not who you think they are.

Yes quite true

I keep telling them it's better to meet on the forums instead of randomly messaging and hoping for a response.

Most don't even know what a forum is...

That's true men ask me, what Forums! They are real men active here for dating. Most are Miles away from me.

I get about 45 views a day. Most from 20-30 yo models.
Of the ones that view me in my age bracket, none so far have been close enough even for a reasonable meet.
I too suggest hitting the forums.
In a convo with one such woman right now.

I get between 50 to 80 views a day. And none of them are people that I would want to talk to. The very few that I could talk to are too far away.

Had that happen a bit when i started. I realised after a while (not to mention many rude replies. ) that if i waited for the forums to mostly load the problem went away.

Also i knoticed when you go thru the match section it shows up as a view no matter how fast you click no.

As for the young models ? Since i set up my filters my inbox has been nice and tidy.

A couple of observations:

first, this particular site appears to have a specific "bot program" attached to it, which is specifically designed to notice when someone logs in, and to generate a fake interest message of a few kinds. Every time I stop in, I get at least one, and sometimes all the kinds of fake messages: one "so-and-so liked your profile; one fake message from a "woman" who is at least thirty years my junior, who says almost nothing more than "hi;" and one "so-and-so nudged you."

Second, I don't know how it works here, since I don't have a paid thing here, but lots of other sites are set up so that every time someone looks at your profile, even for a single second, you get an automated notice that that did.

Most of the time, you don't get the person's picture or location, just that so-and-so looked. If you react by checking to see who it was, then THEY will get a similar vague note saying YOU checked THEM out, again without a picture or a location, so they might well check you out again, just to see who looked THEM up.

It's like echoes in a deep canyon.

Now that I ducked in and posted, when I log out again, the bot program will almost immediately generate ANOTHER fake "ooh, this hot girl really likes you" message of one kind or another.

It gets REALLY confusing here, figuring out whether or not the people who DO seem to contact me, are actual people or not.

I never got EIGHTY ONE, though.

when i see a msg or a view i really don't care

As scheduled, I got a fake thirty year old from Pennsylvania message, even BEFORE I logged out again.

Clockwork.

Blimey we just can't win can we, we're wrong if we just look at your picture and don't read your profile, now we're wrong if we do
Meet me on hangout
I don't mind the forums but they seem to largely consist of make a new pizza from my last eggplant, or somebody from the god squad quoting endless scripture at you, I'm not entirely convinced that's gonna help me get a date