Topic: SEX BEFORE OR AFTER MARRIAGE
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Wed 04/04/18 02:53 PM
Do you mean with your own wife, or someone else’s

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Fri 04/06/18 02:22 PM
Its good in both case afterol its sex

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Fri 04/06/18 09:05 PM

Sex before marriage is a must Would truly suck to find out after that you don't have the same sexual desires. Sex has been a huge issue in marriage and the main reason why people cheat. And you can try to fool yourself that it isn't true, but no doubt that is the reason you are divorced. altimetry it may not be the nail in the coffin but you can bet it stated with you cutting each other off. Have sex every day with you mate lover husband wife girlfriend or boyfriend and you will see how enjoyable life gets. I tried this and it worked out great but the got cut off again and that was the end.


Where is the love? There is just too many that put sex first.

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Fri 04/06/18 09:11 PM
it depend on religion.for example for all the christian we know its sin to do it befor e marrige we should have faith that we are compatible until we are husband and wife


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Mon 04/09/18 02:17 PM
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Mon 04/09/18 03:08 PM
Right you are.

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Fri 05/04/18 10:25 AM
OK baby send message privée

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Fri 05/04/18 11:01 AM
As for me, as a born again Christian i must wait till marriage if the Guy is not willing to wait, then good bye to him. I want to honor God with my body. My choice

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Fri 05/04/18 01:03 PM
Sex before marriage, not before time laugh

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Fri 05/04/18 05:10 PM
Edited by mwx02 on Fri 05/04/18 05:13 PM
I am a christian, and have learnt from experience how difficult it can be to extricate yourself from an incompatible partner especially after having sex. I had an Ex girlfriend I ended up having to block her number.

I have had just friendships with women, who were prospective partners and when it was clear that it could go no further than friendship it was far easier and respectful to just remain friends. I was not looking for a relationship with the women although they were attractive and I can't deny there were times I thought about what it would be like in a physical relationship with them even before marriage. One friend in particular she found a Man and got married, they now have two children together. He is more suited to her and meets her needs far greater than I could ever do. I don't have any guilty looks or embarrassment and pray for them to be blessed.

There is no denying as a relationship blossoms it is hard not too go and eat the forbidden fruit. The plus side to this is:

1) It creates trust between you, both of you know how close you may or may not have come to fornication. With the burning passion smouldering and you being able to demonstrate self control creates the trust and respect of each other.

2) You are able to set boundaries and observe them again cementing trust.

3) There is a blessing in the bible that says:

Hebrews 13:4 “Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.”

4) Getting to know someone rather than just becoming a physical object so that conversations about dreams and aspirations and all the important things that break up marriages is discussed.

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Sat 05/05/18 03:38 AM
If my partner have no problem than we will do sex ,before and after don't matter.

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Sat 05/05/18 03:42 AM
If my partner have no problem.

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Sat 05/05/18 04:17 AM

Please explain your opinion why you think that SEX is good before or after marriage.


AFTEr

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Sat 05/05/18 05:39 AM

I am a christian, and have learnt from experience how difficult it can be to extricate yourself from an incompatible partner especially after having sex. I had an Ex girlfriend I ended up having to block her number.

I have had just friendships with women, who were prospective partners and when it was clear that it could go no further than friendship it was far easier and respectful to just remain friends. I was not looking for a relationship with the women although they were attractive and I can't deny there were times I thought about what it would be like in a physical relationship with them even before marriage. One friend in particular she found a Man and got married, they now have two children together. He is more suited to her and meets her needs far greater than I could ever do. I don't have any guilty looks or embarrassment and pray for them to be blessed.

There is no denying as a relationship blossoms it is hard not too go and eat the forbidden fruit. The plus side to this is:

1) It creates trust between you, both of you know how close you may or may not have come to fornication. With the burning passion smouldering and you being able to demonstrate self control creates the trust and respect of each other.

2) You are able to set boundaries and observe them again cementing trust.

3) There is a blessing in the bible that says:

Hebrews 13:4 “Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.”

4) Getting to know someone rather than just becoming a physical object so that conversations about dreams and aspirations and all the important things that break up marriages is discussed.



Well said brother in Christ. God bless you

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Sat 05/05/18 06:06 AM
Edited by Earthgirl83 on Sat 05/05/18 06:08 AM


mwx02:
I am a christian, and have learnt from experience how difficult it can be to extricate yourself from an incompatible partner especially after having sex. I had an Ex girlfriend I ended up having to block her number.

I have had just friendships with women, who were prospective partners and when it was clear that it could go no further than friendship it was far easier and respectful to just remain friends. I was not looking for a relationship with the women although they were attractive and I can't deny there were times I thought about what it would be like in a physical relationship with them even before marriage. One friend in particular she found a Man and got married, they now have two children together. He is more suited to her and meets her needs far greater than I could ever do. I don't have any guilty looks or embarrassment and pray for them to be blessed.

There is no denying as a relationship blossoms it is hard not too go and eat the forbidden fruit. The plus side to this is:

1) It creates trust between you, both of you know how close you may or may not have come to fornication. With the burning passion smouldering and you being able to demonstrate self control creates the trust and respect of each other.

2) You are able to set boundaries and observe them again cementing trust.

3) There is a blessing in the bible that says:

Hebrews 13:4 “Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.”

4) Getting to know someone rather than just becoming a physical object so that conversations about dreams and aspirations and all the important things that break up marriages is discussed.



Nofearinlove:
Well said brother in Christ. God bless you


Couldn't have said it better. flowers flowers flowers


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Sat 05/05/18 06:27 AM
If it wasn't good before, it still won't be good after. Unless you both started watching the "Better Sex" videos and then communicated to each other about the likes and dislikes of what makes sex good between yourself and your partner.

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Sat 05/05/18 10:07 AM
After marriage enjoy alot ..

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Sat 05/05/18 10:46 AM
response is main thing

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Sat 05/05/18 12:41 PM
Edited by Unknow on Sat 05/05/18 12:44 PM
Depends on personal opinion for me I have to know if we're compatible in bed I will rather not have sex than having sex and not satisfied so i vote sex before marriage

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Sat 05/05/18 12:47 PM

Humm before cause I'm gonna take it for a test run before I invest ~~~~~~~~~~
I agree with you have to know if it still functioning