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But dang it ... if man said I love you before and doesn’t say it when he doesn’t feel like it doesn’t sound right like WTF do you really even care??? Pardon my all caps pls lol That would totally suck! If it were the first time saying it. See you later sis Take care sis !!! See you later |
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some times it just seems like parroting and that makes if seem like less. i luv u i luv u 2 i luv u more i luv u most And who is the parrot Eric? |
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take care on your way to work dear☺
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if it continues like in a bad sitcom then both.
but when it's just once around only the one who replies with it the second one. i would be more concerned with it never being said. not if it is not returned like a hello or goodbye |
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I love you .,,, goodbye
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I love you .,,, goodbye sounds like |
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some times it just seems like parroting and that makes if seem like less.
i luv u i luv u 2 i luv u more i luv u most hi eric, can you expound that more for me..thanks |
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your concern is that he did not say it when you did. but if he did was he just saying it in response to you saying it?
from your other posts he has only said it once in how long that you have been together? |
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your concern is that he did not say it when you did. but if he did was he just saying it in response to you saying it?
from your other posts he has only said it once in how long that you have been together? he told me the three words last Feb4, then i said i love you too, then came yesterday, he message me just before he fly, he did not say i love you, so i message him i love you but after 4hrs, then he answered me back after 10hrs but without saying he loves me too☺ hey, eric..you might laugh at me |
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Edited by
Ness_a
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Tue 02/06/18 06:12 AM
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I have a little story. A male friend once told me that he thought his girlfriend would jump up and down for joy when he told her he loved her first..like Ed McMann were at her door, but instead she just sobbed a little and never said it back. He was totally deflated. He told me men just assume if it’s there, the woman has felt it long before a man would. He had assumed she was waiting for him to say it first, so was devistated when she didnt say it at all. In the end they lived happily ever after, so....
My point is that you cant know what he’s thinking unless he tells you. Just ask. |
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thank you nessa. we can all add whatever personal experiences we have to the discussion but in the end only he can reveal his thoughts and feelings. and to base any decisions or actions on the ramblings of a bunch of internet strangers is unconscionable. even if it it coming from someone who is only separated and not yet divorced
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thank you dear for the FYI..☺
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exactly eric, and i dont have the courage to ask why
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In an age where "How ya doin?" is thrown at you with minimal eye contact during hall passings and sometimes the "I love yous" are passed out with equal sincerity....."Hi" works for me....
....and often with a hand on the shoulder, look in the eye, and wait for response...a "How was your day?" means so much more. |
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thank you nessa. we can all add whatever personal experiences we have to the discussion but in the end only he can reveal his thoughts and feelings. and to base any decisions or actions on the ramblings of a bunch of internet strangers is unconscionable. even if it it coming from someone who is only separated and not yet divorced Agreed Eric. Just trying to offer Mhavic a little moral support with a cute antidote. |
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nessa and eric, thank you so much..well at least...i know where am i right now
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In an age where "How ya doin?" is thrown at you with minimal eye contact during hall passings and sometimes the "I love yous" are passed out with equal sincerity....."Hi" works for me....
....and often with a hand on the shoulder, look in the eye, and wait for response...a "How was your day?" means so much more. but i can't see his eyes, it's just a message |
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Hi, I am new here and chatted with someone for the first time. He said he loved me the second day! How can you love someone you have never met, that's my question? Anyway, he was a scammer, lol.
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