Topic: just wondering
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Tue 02/06/18 05:26 AM


But dang it ... if man said I love you before and doesn’t say it when he doesn’t feel like it doesn’t sound right like WTF do you really even care??? Pardon my all caps pls lol


That would totally suck! ohwell If it were the first time saying it.

See you later sis flowerforyou waving

Take care sis !!! See you later flowers

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Tue 02/06/18 05:27 AM

some times it just seems like parroting and that makes if seem like less.

i luv u
i luv u 2
i luv u more
i luv u most

And who is the parrot Eric?

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Tue 02/06/18 05:28 AM
take care on your way to work dear☺

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Tue 02/06/18 05:30 AM
if it continues like in a bad sitcom then both.
but when it's just once around only the one who replies with it
the second one.
i would be more concerned with it never being said. not if it is not returned like a hello or goodbye

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Tue 02/06/18 05:31 AM
I love you .,,, goodbye slapheadsad

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Tue 02/06/18 05:35 AM
tongue2

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Tue 02/06/18 05:37 AM
I love you .,,, goodbye slapheadsad



sounds like:thinking:

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Tue 02/06/18 05:44 AM
some times it just seems like parroting and that makes if seem like less.

i luv u
i luv u 2
i luv u more
i luv u most


hi eric, can you expound that more for me..thanks

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Tue 02/06/18 05:48 AM
your concern is that he did not say it when you did. but if he did was he just saying it in response to you saying it?

from your other posts he has only said it once in how long that you have been together?

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Tue 02/06/18 06:07 AM
your concern is that he did not say it when you did. but if he did was he just saying it in response to you saying it?

from your other posts he has only said it once in how long that you have been together?


he told me the three words last Feb4, then i said i love you too, then came yesterday, he message me just before he fly, he did not say i love you, so i message him i love you but after 4hrs, then he answered me back after 10hrs but without saying he loves me too☺

hey, eric..you might laugh at me:stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye::stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye::stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

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Tue 02/06/18 06:10 AM
Edited by Ness_a on Tue 02/06/18 06:12 AM
I have a little story. A male friend once told me that he thought his girlfriend would jump up and down for joy when he told her he loved her first..like Ed McMann were at her door, but instead she just sobbed a little and never said it back. He was totally deflated. He told me men just assume if it’s there, the woman has felt it long before a man would. He had assumed she was waiting for him to say it first, so was devistated when she didnt say it at all. In the end they lived happily ever after, so....

My point is that you cant know what he’s thinking unless he tells you. Just ask.

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Tue 02/06/18 06:17 AM
thank you nessa. we can all add whatever personal experiences we have to the discussion but in the end only he can reveal his thoughts and feelings. and to base any decisions or actions on the ramblings of a bunch of internet strangers is unconscionable. even if it it coming from someone who is only separated and not yet divorced

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Tue 02/06/18 06:29 AM
thank you dear for the FYI..☺

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Tue 02/06/18 06:32 AM
exactly eric, and i dont have the courage to ask why

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Tue 02/06/18 06:33 AM
In an age where "How ya doin?" is thrown at you with minimal eye contact during hall passings and sometimes the "I love yous" are passed out with equal sincerity....."Hi" works for me....

....and often with a hand on the shoulder, look in the eye, and wait for response...a "How was your day?" means so much more.

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Tue 02/06/18 06:34 AM

thank you nessa. we can all add whatever personal experiences we have to the discussion but in the end only he can reveal his thoughts and feelings. and to base any decisions or actions on the ramblings of a bunch of internet strangers is unconscionable. even if it it coming from someone who is only separated and not yet divorced


Agreed Eric. Just trying to offer Mhavic a little moral support with a cute antidote. :grin::thumbsup:

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Tue 02/06/18 06:46 AM
nessa and eric, thank you so much..well at least...i know where am i right now:wink:

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Tue 02/06/18 06:47 AM
In an age where "How ya doin?" is thrown at you with minimal eye contact during hall passings and sometimes the "I love yous" are passed out with equal sincerity....."Hi" works for me....

....and often with a hand on the shoulder, look in the eye, and wait for response...a "How was your day?" means so much more.


but i can't see his eyes, it's just a message:wink:

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Tue 02/06/18 06:55 AM
flowerforyou

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Tue 02/06/18 07:56 AM
Hi, I am new here and chatted with someone for the first time. He said he loved me the second day! How can you love someone you have never met, that's my question? Anyway, he was a scammer, lol.