Money isn't all we need but love,tender and full endurement ,,,love with passion,heart,body,mind and soul,

But money does play a factor in there. I am not going to support a grown man. I raised my son. Don't need another

I guess it's not only love, it's love and money...

We still need money to buy our needs (not necessarily the wants)... we still prefer guys who have money to support his family.. don't to be rich.. just responsible and hard working with dreams in life too ( someone who dreams to make his life better and is doing something to achieve it)

After years of tossing back and forth about what is most important, I finally real that EVERYTHING IS.

People who like to schmooze on and on about "it's all about the love," in my experience, are just swimming around in their own brain chemicals, indulging in their own fantasies, and calling for the other person to doff their life goals and personal principles and jump in with them.

The only factual thing to say sounds absurdly boring and obvious, but it's also the least recognized:

EVERYTHING is everything.

You can't have a good life together with JUST emotion to feed you. YOU need actual food. And clothing. And shelter. And so on.