Talked to a guy through mingle and all the time on the phone. He came over and we had a good time. Talked the next day then nothing. I guess I made a wrong choice?

it happens. the attraction apparently wasn't mutual after face to face.
but i think for it to be this new fangled ghosting he will need to show back up at a later date. and like nothing ever happened lol

Sounds like you are better off without him, anyway!

Good luck to you with finding who you’re looking for!

happens all the time. especially online

Sorry for your bad experience. I can't help but be offended for you.

This happened to a friend of mine with a man she met in a bookstore. He asked her out to dinner and seemed to be enjoying himself. At the end of the night, they exchanged numbers and she never heard from him again.

I thought it was terribly rude behavior! Why can't these "ghost" types pick up the phone and say..."I had a nice time, but just didn't feel any spark." Is it really such a hardship to show a modicum of courtesy?

Your profile says activity partner, So maybe he wanted one day.

I find the common, modern approach to "communication" via no response is horrible.

I cannot stand business folks with this approach. The business I am in major efforts are undergone via email. I abhors sending emails to someone and no response. All emails sent aren't always received...Duh.

I was set up by business associate years back with his Niece. He told me he thought maybe great future for us.

Debbie and I spoke few times on phone. We decided Uncle might be onto something and we should meet. Met gorgeous Lady... Debbie. Wow. We went to casual dinner. Then walk around lake I lived on. We saw a rat running around while we carefully looking for alligators. Bit of fun regarding.

Then a few days later I called Debbie and told her I had great time and hoped to see her again soon. She said yes...she felt same. She said her friend had broken her arm and Debbie would be tending to her next week or so. After that... good to go and give her a call.

About week later I called Debbie and left her voicemail. No call back. I called again few days later... answering machine. Again, she didn't return call.

Sometime later I saw Uncle and he asked me how things were going with Debbie. I told him what occurred. I told him she is really nice and thanks. He said she had told him she liked me also.
I told him she knows my # and my intentions. He wasn't real happy with results either.

I obviously have wondered if I should have been more persistent. I guess so.

Just enjoy pretty Sis.. don't take it personally when they leave

People especially from dating sites really come and go.

Just keep on meeting and chatting without expecting any

Hello and good luck to your search

Sorry for your experience. Maybe some people just can't explain their feelings so don't even try to.