I was raised old school. but its fading. i remember getting a complement for opening a door for a lady, by some random passerby. It kinda burned me a little bit because it should even be a deal. i dont know he just made it seem like a snobbish thing.

oh and ladies just a tip when you get to a door with your date/man DO NOT reach for the door just wait say nothing. make/let him open it. gentlemen need ladies. If he gets all weird about it then drop him.

Hi everyone,
new to this site but had to jump into the topic
I am recently thrust back into the world of being single. I'm not into the bar/club scene as a way to meet people either...most of them seem to be "meat markets", at least where I live.
I'm looking for friends to have some adult conversations with that aren't X-rated. It seems like a few other sites that I've checked out most of the guys start a conversation right out with " Great t-ts baby!" Or asking VERY personal questions.. So I can see SWIM's point of view. Would these guys say that if we were face to face?
Talking and flirting is one thing, but out-right disrespect for someone you don't know yet is just plain rude.
Is polite yet informal conversation dead in the world of dating?