huggzz for whispers.!!!

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He was just correcting somebody who said the states. At least people read my profile...lol.

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Thank you

xo

sea.....she gets hugzzzzz and xo and I get "do I have to?" on the say something nice thread!!!

oh ok, sorry just thought he was giving you a rough time, sorry for jumping the gun, I aplogize.

my knight in shinning armor

awww thanks Whisper, you are truly a great person, and I am glad that I know you.

Don't give up on us men. We are all not like those idiots who you've been dealing with in the past.

Why wait for him to call??? If he said he would and doesnt...you should have had your shoes on and out the door with your friends......if he called later, and you were busy, he may be more apt to get ahold of you.

{{{Whisper}}}

Got to seek out the other 20% that are not jerks (from your statistics). There are good guys out there. I have to believe this since I have a son and so want him to grow up to be a gentleman.

Gypsy is right. Get yourself out with your friends. Don't be sitting by the phone waiting for him.

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Re-read Shadow and Gypsy's post. I could not agree more with the things they said. As Shadow advised, you need to look at the whole pic. Why is it you are so needy for a man, yet you are bi? Your odds for companionship are double us straight-folk. However, you are somehow alone. It cannot be the other party who always commits the wrong. Do a deep and searching moral inventory......it is the answer to your questions?!

I'm glad you guys cleared my statement up. I love Canadians!

I can't. All I can say is that you treat each one individually and don't distrust the one until he starts doing things that set off your alarms.

I dated a guy and we broke up. He lived an hour away and would get into these moods and not tell me why. Over the next year we still talked. What I didn't know is that we met only 6 months after the woman he loved died and about a year after his mother's death.

So we were talking about giving things another try, he even drove up to see me. Turned out, the entire time, he was dating another girl and when he came up to see me, he was already engaged to her. So he turned out to be a lying, cheating scumbag afterall.

I find it hard to trust men, and he was one of the few I actually trusted. I never expected that of him, based on all I knew of him over 2.5 years. But if I don't treat men as individuals, I'll never be with one ever again. Since I don't go for women, that would be a bit depressing.

Hope that helps you make up your mind about what you want to do.

Whisper, sorry about the jerks, but some of are decent guys.

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I hear ya girl!!!

There has to be somebody that will treat you right, ya just got to find him.

I have somewhat sorta the same problems, but it seems that every woman I meet has toooooo much drama going on!!! Damn, I hate drama!!!

hay whisper see the cat learn from the cat chill out!!!!! he prob`ly is a idiot look at it this way its HIS LOSS.it aint easy an as most of the others said take a step back regroup heal your wounds find out who you are an what you realy want then when your ready you can try again . dont give up "whats for you shant pass you by" keep yer chin up lots of love all the way from scotland xxx

Hmmm, see the cat, learn from the cat. Cats only worry about males when they are in heat. Then they don't care, male or female, cat or dog or human. When not in heat, cats could care less about anything. And the female cat always rules the other cats in the house, the dogs, and makes a really good attempt at ruling the humans. The average cat believes it is Bast incarnate and ought to be worshiped. The average female cat is 10 times worse this way than the average male cat.

So, Whisper, you are female and ought to be worshiped by everything and anything. If you are not, it is a waste of your time and you move on to another. Walk away swishing your ass when the male is a ****. You are the goddess and in control. If you have needs that must be met, find a way and then move on. Toys are always a good thing and sleep often.

Maybe you are "trusting" too quickly. Trust is earned. Just because you start dating someone does not mean they are trustworthy. I have had female friends that I found I could not trust so I don't think it is gender related. Emotional investment like financial investment in another should be done with caution. Don't give up, just be smarter.

Yep totally agree. If what you're doin isn't working, time for a new strategy