And I have a "whatever" clause. If we go out on a date and you are so clueless as to the world around you that you answer every question with the one word "whatever" after 10 "whatevers" I get to start every sentence by addressing you as "dude" pronounced "doooode" so we both sound stupid and clueless and unintellegent. It would go like this after number nine; "So cheryl, this five star restaurant has an incredible menu. The seafood is always fresh and their shrimp alfredo is delightful. Their linguini is great with their homemade blood sausage. Their ravioli is handrolled and they are as big around as your drinkglass. Don't worry about the incredible amount of food they bring. Everyone goes out of here after the seven course meal with 'doggy bags'. Its part of the charm. Here comes our matre de have you decided on your order?" "whatever". "dooode that's like so b!tchin! Like I'd order f ing whatever too but I'm fricking hungry! So ill have this sh!t and some of that sh!t that guy over there is havin and what's this sh!t here on the menu dooode that I can't pronounce lungcookies? Oh langastinos? Baby lobsters? Are they out of diapers yet? This place rocks dooode! You da man. Dis place is da bomb! Aint that right whatever dooode?"

Hey it was worth the 150 bucks to act like a jackass cali surfer chronic head. She's laughing. She has no personality. She has no clue. Its our first and last date.

longhair are you taking over threads again?

Women who brag about how many tattoos and piercings because that's all they have and have a morbid life fetish for it. Hmmm. Do I go there? Ok. I'm bad. I let them go on and on and on about their piercings until I'm suicidal. Then I tell them I have my starfish pierced. Y know my bunghole and that I really don't want anyone to know. They always fall for the bait. So yeh tell me that's not a great date when you get the chance to stand on a table with your pants down, butt up, cheeks spread right in her face and she says "uh I don't see a piercing." And you say "PSYCHE!!!!" or "BURN!!!" or "MADE YOU LOOK!!!"

Anyway, the concept of hard-to-get is actually pretty important, and if you don't practice it, it's probably the primary reason that you are here on a dating site. I'm talking to both guys and girls here, and I don't mean any of that in any offensive manner, by the way.

People want what they can't have. Playing hard-to-get increases DESIRE in the other party involved and mainly consists of teasing.

Speaking from a Freudian perspective, let's take the assumption that every stage of the courtship process relates to sex. What makes sex the MOST pleasurable? What can you do during sex that gives women multiple orgasms? That's right, it's TEASING. Statistics show that if you spend at least 21 minutes in foreplay, 93% of women will experience an orgasm during the intercourse that follows. What does foreplay do? It TEASES the sexual organs and builds ANTICIPATION. That's what playing hard-to-get does. It teases and builds anticipation, making the whole flirting experience more fun for those "in the know."

One very common way to tease in playing hard-to-get is sending mixed signals. Another way is basically doing the same thing except using touch and proximity. There's so much to play with here!

Happy hunting,
-Chief

Biker.....what is your idea of a great date???? Please explain....

<<< is the hardest to get woman

I'm a great date. I just don't "boink" on a first date and I'm not playing hard to get and I'm not into "instant" relationships. That's all.

And maja I asked you out.

And yes chief you answered the medical "why" question to "playing" hard to get on the sexual aspect for overt stimulation purposes. The thrill of the chase ends up in #1 great sex. #2 bad sex. #3 blue balls and no sex. Or #4 the neighbors calling the police, and the fire department and crash rescue. Or does that just happen to me?

im hard to get if a girl cant truly know how to love a man

longhair! hows it going yes we are going shopping lol

A great date. Hmmmm. Gypsy is it with you?

Yeh but carislove man you're all hands. Sex, sex, sex, sex. Doesn't that get old? There's more in life and more in this world than your raging boner. Ha ha ha love ya man.

Yeh but carislove man you're all hands. Sex, sex, sex, sex. Doesn't that get old? There's more in life and more in this world than your raging boner. Ha ha ha love ya man.

caris isn't feeling my love

I know I know I'm old and creepy.

longhair! no you're not! at all don't ever say that!

Just when should I start a thread on turnons. Because that's where this thread is going.