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aliceroper16 Joined Mon 09/04/17 Posts: 2	Mon 09/04/17 01:38 PM
is jealousy act of love??? I need some comments plz

Unknow Joined Sat 01/11/14 Posts: 23369	Mon 09/04/17 01:42 PM
No, I think it's a sign of insecurity

med6776 Joined Tue 08/15/17 Posts: 1	Mon 09/04/17 01:57 PM
i think yes its act of love, also that can be insecurity, for me its act of love.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14969	Mon 09/04/17 02:31 PM
No

Teak Joined Thu 11/10/16 Posts: 3	Mon 09/04/17 02:51 PM
jeliousy is a virus, it can break any relationship

ciretom Joined Wed 06/18/14 Posts: 4953	Mon 09/04/17 05:42 PM
is jealousy act of love? No. You can feel jealous without being in love. Of course you can be in love with someone, then notice some change in the relationship, which can engender feelings of jealousy. But it's not an act of love. If you're asking something convoluted like "I like/am dating this guy and I'm noticing I am starting to feel jealous when he flirts with other girls, or he gives his attention to his mother, does that mean I love him/starting to love him?" No. Feeling jealous does not automatically mean there are deeper feelings of love, and that love is triggering jealous feelings. Might as well ask "is hunger act of joy?"

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Mon 09/04/17 06:43 PM
is jealousy act of love??? I need some comments plz its a feeling IMO . the way you handle or act upon it shows your level of maturity and understanding towards people ,thus it can make or break a relationship.

IgorFrankensteen Joined Thu 10/01/09 Posts: 5444	Thu 09/07/17 02:09 PM
It's a reaction. Not an act of any kind. As Skepticalsoulmate says, how you personally decide to act upon your emotional reactions, is entirely independent of your emotions. At least, assuming you are legally sane. Some people have occasionally suggested that jealously is sort of indicator of love, in that some (especially younger and less wise) people purposely flirt with someone else in front of their target partner, in hopes of triggering a jealously-based outburst in response. IMO, that is a horrible way to test someone you claim o care about, since a jealous reaction is actually painful to the person experiencing it. Not to mention, it's an incredibly rude imposition on the person being used as "bait."

IgorFrankensteen Joined Thu 10/01/09 Posts: 5444	Thu 09/07/17 02:09 PM Edited by IgorFrankensteen on Thu 09/07/17 02:10 PM
Another annoying spontaneous instant double post.

scepticalsoulmate Joined Wed 08/24/16 Posts: 9737	Thu 09/07/17 11:01 PM
It's a reaction. Not an act of any kind. As Skepticalsoulmate says, how you personally decide to act upon your emotional reactions, is entirely independent of your emotions. At least, assuming you are legally sane. Some people have occasionally suggested that jealously is sort of indicator of love, in that some (especially younger and less wise) people purposely flirt with someone else in front of their target partner, in hopes of triggering a jealously-based outburst in response. IMO, that is a horrible way to test someone you claim o care about, since a jealous reaction is actually painful to the person experiencing it. Not to mention, it's an incredibly rude imposition on the person being used as "bait." i am so jealous of the way you write Igor

Dreamer1982 Joined Mon 07/09/12 Posts: 126	Fri 09/08/17 08:19 PM
It's a reaction. Not an act of any kind. As Skepticalsoulmate says, how you personally decide to act upon your emotional reactions, is entirely independent of your emotions. At least, assuming you are legally sane. Some people have occasionally suggested that jealously is sort of indicator of love, in that some (especially younger and less wise) people purposely flirt with someone else in front of their target partner, in hopes of triggering a jealously-based outburst in response. IMO, that is a horrible way to test someone you claim o care about, since a jealous reaction is actually painful to the person experiencing it. Not to mention, it's an incredibly rude imposition on the person being used as "bait." Hit the nail on the head. Well said. It is totally a reaction... if 1 does not act in ways that are questionable, jealousy wouldn't happen...

vernrecto Joined Sat 08/19/17 Posts: 6	Sat 09/09/17 12:49 AM
I want to have a serious relationship that lead to long term commitment. #realman #wantedseriousrelationship

LeeFranklin Joined Tue 06/28/16 Posts: 201	Thu 09/21/17 04:56 PM
Anyone associated with you should go out of there way everyday, all day to never make you suspicious. If you are sill suspicious, look int ht mirror at yourself. If you are whole then maybe something up hidden away deep with your Companion or yourself?

kafsabizarin Joined Mon 08/07/17 Posts: 1	Wed 09/27/17 12:33 AM
Anyone associated with you should go out of there way everyday, all day to never make you suspicious. If you are sill suspicious, look int ht mirror at yourself. If you are whole then maybe something up hidden away deep with your Companion or yourself? خدمات کفسابی قیمت کفسابی سنگ نماشویی بدون داربست شستشوی نمای ساختمان