If the people from school who tormented you because of your looks and or weight or for other reason saw you and became interested because you looks imporoved and weight dropped would you go out with them. I used to be tormented back in school.

My answer is a big hell no.

Anyone else care to answer as to what they would do

id say hell no also lol

When I went to my first class reunion...I was completely shocked!!!! All the guys I thought were hot in highschool aged so much and had a ponch ewwwwwwwww....and the women looked old and haggard or fat!!! The nerdy boys from highschool turned into these hot men!!! I couldnt believe it!!!

I was never tormented in high school but if I were, I dont think I could go out with someone that would have stooped to that level, highschool or not!!!

I think it depends a lot on the age and what they did when they were making fun of you. People do change, they grow up. if they are willing to apologize and accept that what they did was wrong, I might give them a chance.

I was one of the school weirdos
yet I also know that some of the crap I endured I brought on my self
So I wouldn't harbor any grudges about someone from way back in the school days. I would first see if they had changed and grown up themselves before passing judgment ,or holding in that pain all this time.

Remember people really do not set out to be mean its the life they live. its that are they a follower or a leader its the lack of morels taught at home not saying that parents are bad they just don't think about it until it comes up in their lives with their kids kids have to be taught right from the get go compassion, understanding, tolerance, respect for all mankind

i was the fat gal in h.s., (sz 18) & was tormented unmerciously by both the guys & gals...the answer would be a resounding NO WAY!!!

One of my ex's used to show me pics of girls in the girly mags and tell me things like "if you looked like that I would not cheat on you" and stuff like that. I was always thicker than the "accepted" weight. Now he would love to be back with me but I cannot forget those taunts enough to be with him. So my answer would be no, if they were too shallow then they cannot have it now. Even though now they probably realize that they were wrong.

Bullying is a messed up situation. It makes me angry and sad when others get picked on. I got picked on all my life and it is terrible. But thank god high schools over ~hells yeah ~ I just wish that the people who bully realize that what there doing destroys lives! Bullies are a pain. But yeah i got teased about my weight and how ugly and stupid and all this crap, and its just not a good thing...not a good thing at all

omg, lol, that is soooooooo the story of my life. i was always picked on in school because i was always tall and very thin. my nickname was olive oyle. anyways, i ran into a guy i had had a crush on all through highschool and he asked me out. so i said yes, like a dummy, well he ended up trying to go home with me. i had a key to my moms house, i took him in, told him i forgot something in the car, called the cops on my cell, and yeah, it was just wrong, but it was such a great feeling, getting revenge on this guy who made my highschool years a living hell.

I didn't have any problems in school, but as a what-if type of questions...I would tell them to go screw themselves. They've already proven to be shallow and judgemental. Not the type of people that I would choose to associate with.

But on a sidenote, we were all kids back in highschool. Perhaps their current level of maturity should be taken into consideration too. Perhaps they've changed as much on the inside as you have on the outside...

i wasnt very popular with men at school, when i left school and turned 17 to 18 my looks totally changed, my figure changed, i got curves, and my boobs didnt stop growing until i got to a d cup lol. when i was out i would see my old male friends from school and they would all chat me up and ask me on dates, they couldnt believe i was the same person, but i told them all to **** off. they wouldnt talk to me at school, but because my looks changed so much they were only interested then. i developed late due to asthma medication, the steroid inhalers (i was put on the wrong one, long story, thats why i changed so much when i left school.

i'm with ya hun, we had the ugly duckling syndrome, when we matured into swans they all change their tune, lol

exactly,well put. spot on. but it feels good to tell them to **** off

Hell F&#$@?g No...Then tell them GFYS
I was heavy set in high school, but not too many people f`d with me because I had a very quick wit and would hit them also with one liner put downsThey wouldn`t know what to expect, so i guess they thought twice about it.

I hated school growing up I learned to hate it. I liked the teachers it was the other students who I didn't care for.

School is tough on every kid, development happens at different rates for each of us and naturally as animals, children subconsciously pick up on this and have a field day with it, but it's up to each of us to determine who we are and not the mere rantings of others!

i was a chubby girl throughout my childhood, i was constantly made fun of, but when i got to be a senior most of them matured, it's just growing up

i dont do high school reunions.didnt wanta hang with the beautiful people then,dont care to now.