Its always hard to be with people you love, Long distance Is such a pin in the ***. I wanna be close to many people but they not here, like here with me right now, and I love them.

I was in a long distance relationship and realised it just wasnt for me so I ended it and we were both very upset. I know it works for some people but not me

I hear you long distance relationships don't work for me either. seems like everyone is either too far or too young.

What consenting adults do together is their own business...don't forget to film it for posterity.

I have experienced "love"...i know it...but can't define it...or manipulate it...therefore, i don't know what is meant by boundaries...

Love and relationship are not synonymous...a relationship can certainly have boundaries imposed by the persons involved...it can be manipulated...but love is either there or it isn't...( my 2 cents)

i agree but what can you say about people who love each other but is and cannot be in a relationship because of the distance i dont know if this is a silly question....just a thought i guess

Love? No.

But what a person DOES about love, yes absolutely. Behavior always needs boundaries.

From Sceptical:
i agree but what can you say about people who love each other but is and cannot be in a relationship because of the distance i dont know if this is a silly question....just a thought i guess


From Mayb:
Distance is not the only thing that can make togetherness a challenge...you could live in the same city/neighborhood and embrace totally different religions or opposite political beliefs...family social standing differences could be an obstacle...but funny thing about "love", it can happen nonetheless...

It's not a silly question sceptical, I'm sure a lot have wondered about this...me included!

If you have never met, it could be more that you are in love with the idea of loving that person....that's one of the dangers we sometimes get into with long distance relationships. When we do meet them, they may or may not be as we imagined.

If you have met and you "both" feel the same way, yet there is absolutely no way possible to be together...that is sad and can be really hard to deal with. But once you move past all the "what if's" and accept this reality, then maybe it's possible to have a great friend from afar!

I feel the same way when it comes to family and friends. It can be difficult to visit them or vise versa. Keeping in contact through writing and calling helps. Also video chatting can help with that desire to have them with you right now.

I work at a resort and it's not unusual to see guests walking around video chatting with someone from home. It gives them that sense of experiencing the vacation together.

Well, i used to belive LDRs were a dead zone. But I know now that it is possible.

You need boundaries, or you'll have nothing to push against

I believe that each person has that choice to make if it has limits or boundaries so be it..

Tried the LDR it's not for me and not something I'm willing to do again at this time..

Some can make the LDR's work out cause it will call for one to have to move.. See at this time I'm not willing to move.. therefore would not ask someone else to do what I will not willing to do for them..

YES

I was thinking what are boundaries and here you gave the answer, so thanks mikey.

So boundaries are like walls in a house. If there are no walls, you might fall off the house in case you are sleep walking or texting while walking. And this could hurt and you might end up in the hospital.

... or you might fall on an unsuspecting person and that person could get hurt.

So to answer the OP's question, definitely yes.. there should be boundaries.

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that's why I miss you so when you are not here... nobody lies to my face and then gives me flowers and kisses the way you do, my dear friend

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