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Topic: Game of love... gulps...
Uneeknrare Joined Mon 08/06/07 Posts: 682	Tue 11/27/07 03:58 PM
Being a Chicken in the Game of Love ..... why is it so hard to open up to someone when you have been hurt so badly in the past?

musclehd Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 5015	Tue 11/27/07 03:59 PM
because history repeats it self.. i think its just hard to open up to anyone in general. coming from me tho doesnt mean much, i am pretty selfish.

Uneeknrare Joined Mon 08/06/07 Posts: 682	Tue 11/27/07 04:02 PM
I am sorry that you are selfish....lol... but at least you are honest.

musclehd Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 5015	Tue 11/27/07 04:03 PM
haha.. thanksssssss

musclehd Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 5015	Tue 11/27/07 04:04 PM
just be you, your are young and beautiful.. do you want to be in a relationship.. i never always been selfish but i was hurt as well and it just made me a cold induviual.

Uneeknrare Joined Mon 08/06/07 Posts: 682	Tue 11/27/07 04:05 PM
Yikes.... well... I guess time will tell. I am so picky... i deserve the best and I will not settle....

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Tue 11/27/07 04:08 PM
after you burn your hand on a hot stove top...why don't you put are hand on it again??? Defense mechanism...either innate or learned can limit new experiences..

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Tue 11/27/07 04:10 PM
If given enough time, people can earn your trust. Too many people want to rush things.

musclehd Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 5015	Tue 11/27/07 04:11 PM
Yikes.... well... I guess time will tell. I am so picky... i deserve the best and I will not settle.... Exactly thats the same way i think.. hence me being selfish. ive been thro some tuff times and im not gonna go thro them again. im thankful for what i have and i give back to the wants who helped me get where i am at and the ones who didnt.. if your are gonna get the best of me, i have to recieve the best from you.

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Tue 11/27/07 04:15 PM
broken trust. ironically, the only way to fix broken trust is to give trust again. but there are many trustworthy people out there...take a chance again if you find someone who seems worthy and if they fail you, try again... when you find some who are special it will be worth it.

ak0 Joined Tue 09/25/07 Posts: 2505	Tue 11/27/07 04:16 PM
i'm gettin chills

musclehd Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 5015	Tue 11/27/07 04:19 PM
well then stop lookin at me!

Uneeknrare Joined Mon 08/06/07 Posts: 682	Tue 11/27/07 04:24 PM
I guess time will tell.....

musclehd Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 5015	Tue 11/27/07 04:24 PM
best of luck gorgeous!

Uneeknrare Joined Mon 08/06/07 Posts: 682	Tue 11/27/07 04:34 PM
Thanks ... you too.....

musclehd Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 5015	Tue 11/27/07 04:35 PM
luck im gonna need a miracale hahaha

fortsmithman Joined Sun 10/28/07 Posts: 2819	Wed 11/28/07 04:50 PM
Yikes.... well... I guess time will tell. I am so picky... i deserve the best and I will not settle.... You do not have to settle for second best get the best you can get.

maja788 Joined Sat 11/03/07 Posts: 1454	Wed 11/28/07 04:52 PM
hun, if you know what you're looking for and what you want wait for that don't take anything that comes along first

maja788 Joined Sat 11/03/07 Posts: 1454	Wed 11/28/07 04:52 PM Edited by maja788 on Wed 11/28/07 04:52 PM
ps. you are absolutely beautiful and i bet you'll find someone really soon

fortsmithman Joined Sun 10/28/07 Posts: 2819	Wed 11/28/07 04:56 PM Edited by fortsmithman on Wed 11/28/07 04:56 PM
ps. you are absolutely beautiful and i bet you'll find someone really soon Maja those comments you made also apply to you as well you a beautiful lady. You will find that someone special too.