what's wrong with this site? i couldnt find any serious man. they're all just about having chat sex. and why the men about 40 to 60 chat a girl 20 yo? is that normal? they wanted to have a serious relationship.
just wondering

I seriously can't believe that every man here has been chatting about sex. On dating sites you will always hear from those who you will not be interested in such as the ones you have referred to.
In regards to those who are between 40 to 60, some may genuinely like dating someone younger or older as age gap relationships are more accepted and normal these days compared to let's say the 1990s. It's all down to discernment and what you are looking for. You will need to specify that you are not looking for men that are of a certain age or here just to hook up or chat about sex. If they do then simply block or report them. I hope this helps.

There is nothing wrong with this site...perhaps your experience is very limited with this and other such sites; and that is the reason for your questions/assessments.
1 - you can search for Indonesian men in a certain age range...have you done that?...you can view their profiles and message any of them.
2 - Age difference is not a criteria for chatting unless a person chooses to make it...relationships have been developed between men and women with widely different ages...and it is not unusual for the younger person to initiate the conversation...
3 - you can add as much content to your profile as needed to state what you are seeking and what you are NOT seeking.
4 - there are thousands of profiles of men from many countries available for viewing on this site...How many have you actually viewed to say that "they're all just about having sex chat"?

welcome to Mingle2...much success to you...

i think, most people here are for sex only. but for showing being good, they look for friendship first and when trust develop, they go for intimacy.

Hello
Normal is defined by each person's own standards.
If you don't want to be contacted by people beyond a certain age group, you can set filters.
If course then you eliminate people you might just make froends with.
It might help you if you add detail to yoyr profile.
When people message you, it doesn't mean you have to respond.
Good luck on yoyr search

I must be doing something wrong then (or right) because I have had some lovely messages and yes some are fakes but not much talk of sex I am pleased to say xx

I must be doing something wrong then (or right) because I have had some lovely messages and yes some are fakes but not much talk of sex I am pleased to say xx