why is that no one believes me when I tell em I wanna get serious with the relationship, the most I get is you is a player or taken has anyone been in the same situation how do go about this #sick and tired

Establish credibility first, then go for the jugular.

Absolutely

Well, you could try filling out your profile!

Yes I feel your pain brother all the women I know think I'm a huge player.. for the life of me I can't understand why.. I'm very faithful and loyal my eyes will never wander from my true..ohhh.. wait a minute!!.. a nice little redheads walking my way..well
Hello there strawberry.. cheesecake mmmhhmmm.. yum....oops.. sorry about that what was I saying again???..wink.wink.lol

Just hate the game, Yo.

I have to guess, since I don't know the detailed circumstances, but I think I have a worthwhile suggestion.

Observe how you talk to them. The phrases you use. Especially any favorite "lingo."

Most of the time, when someone gets the wrong idea about someone, it's because that someone was behaving in some way that the target associated with people they don't like.

Basically, if you talk and write and otherwise behave like a "player," many women are likely to assume you are one, and everything you say otherwise will only confirm it to them.

For SURE, no one denies more intensely that they are a player, than a true player.

maybe you are sending generic emails? Try addressing the young ladies personally, it might work better for you.

Good luck

well said Rosie! :)

We attract what we project....
Trying flipping the script...
Don't let your environment,dictate your future.
Fight....
To break the stereotype.
Good luck my friend.

Fill out your profile.
Take time to get to know people.
If you jump straight in with wanting a relationship or marriage, it's not the best choice.
Good luck