Guys, make sure you list your gender as Male and specify that you're looking for a woman. That way your profile will be visible to women and not to us men in search and matches.

Thank you.

... and here is how to do it:

On the web (in a browser on your PC/laptop):
Account (top left beside the mingle2 logo) -> Edit profile (under your pic) -> General -> About you
For "You are a" select "Man".
For "Looking for a" select "Woman"

On the Android app:
Menu (top left) -> My profile
For "Gender" select "Man"
For "Looking fir a" select "Woman"

Yes, it's that easy.

Nobody else had this problem, then?