i have been to alot of sights an i get some likes but i can never get a girl to talk and if they do its only a couple messages and they stop i been single close to two years she hurt me bad so i already feel. low about myself this isnt helping for sure and i try upbeat ut getting pretty hard o

Hi mookey 420. Keep in mind this is from another guy's perspective. Your profile name, with the " 420" on it signify s marijuana. That narrows down the girls who would be interested. Generally, if a person focus's pot, in their profile, then it is a big thing that they want to do all the time. That may not make the best partner. Along with your long hair....Don't get me wrong, I do not mean to say anything to cause you any pain, but with your reference to pot, and the long hair, you look like a " pot head". I could be wrong. But as a matter of fact, I don't smoke pot, and I have short hair, and I ain't getting any either, so what do I know?. If you expect anything to come from this site, you will be disappointed. With your kid, take him out to the zoo, or park, or other places where single women go with their kids. They will see you with yours, and you can strike up a conversation then. Women like to see a man with their kids. You would have a better chance doing that, then hoping for something from here. And smile in your photo. Take Care.

Hey you two, move over, this boat is getting full
Don't take it to heart mate. I have the same, it's just the way it is on these sites.
Being hurt is a bummer but not all women are the same and vice versa.
Maybe try looking for something completely different to what you had in the past!
Good luck

One of the first things you have to do is clear out your past. If you can, change place a bit to reduce the presence of your past relationship. For me, that was painting and doing some building here. Women do not want to be in a place if they can feel the past relationship.

Take your son to the park or places you have there. Volunteer. But, basically, get out and about. Try new things. New places and things have new people.

Sites like this are like shopping for candy. You may look good till the next picture appears. And, that works both ways I am sorry to say.

But, good luck. And may you find what you are seeking.

Good profile and pics but (as said above) the 420 might limit you