Topic: will I ever find the one?
Lookingfortheone1068's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:27 AM
I know I havent been on this site long but all the girls I want to date live elsewhere. ANd I work too much to date a girl around here.
will I ever really find the one or will I just date for the rest of my life? I want to settle down someday but it doesnt seem like it will ever happen.

Dreamer01's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:30 AM
You'll find a girl. You have probably heard this before, but "when you're not expecting it, love comes".

eileena9's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:31 AM
Sweetie, you are 19....give yourself some time and enjoy your life.....get to know yourself before looking for the "perfect one" This is coming from someone who got engaged at 19 and married at 22. Take your time, and you will find her.flowerforyou flowerforyou

babygirlnrctc's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:32 AM
OK, everyone goes through that phase "will i ever find the one" and i think you will find someone, but most ppl dont find "the one". But it will happen when you least expect it, not when your looking, trust me, there is someone for everyone.

no photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:33 AM
It's true dreamer ,love is like butterfly don't run after and when u stand in corner it will sit on your shoulder,be cheerful like there is no tommorow and i have been doing the same since more then 50days

bgeorge's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:35 AM
when you least expect it...WHAM!!!! there she is...jesus you're young...enjoy it...you a whole other lifetime of doing the marriage,kids,housepayment, bills, stress,no time to do anything you want...it's good yeah...but enjoy your freedom now...brenda

marky84's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:35 AM
i like that 1 shawn

:smile:

dont look for ur cat, lay down and ur kitty will come to u happy

ive got 3 cats btw happy :tongue:

^_^

nuenjins's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:35 AM
I disagree with the girls on this one. I was looking, but just don't look too hard for "the one". Get to know some women and you get to know yourself and what you want in a woman. Then before you know it you know exactly what your looking for and how to "spot" her.:wink:

nuenjins's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:39 AM
Life doesn't just lay on your lap, if it did, then you're gonna get out what you put into it, which is nothing.

Same with anything in life, even marriage. Stop contributing, stop receiving. It takes effort and faith working together.:smile:

eileena9's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:42 AM

I disagree with the girls on this one. I was looking, but just don't look too hard for "the one". Get to know some women and you get to know yourself and what you want in a woman. Then before you know it you know exactly what your looking for and how to "spot" her.:wink:



uhhh....isn't that what I said.....get to know yourself first...?????? And I am a girl last I checked!!!!!!!huh huh huh huh

no photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:42 AM
Don't u guys think that Now a days online dating is unsolved puzzle so may be "The one" is might be a big challenge here , u know what "Those get, who wait"

longhairbiker's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:42 AM
Very true.

longhairbiker's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:45 AM
Very true.

Lookingfortheone1068's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:47 AM
wow i didnt think I would get this many responses. Thanks guys.

nuenjins's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:50 AM


I disagree with the girls on this one. I was looking, but just don't look too hard for "the one". Get to know some women and you get to know yourself and what you want in a woman. Then before you know it you know exactly what your looking for and how to "spot" her.:wink:



uhhh....isn't that what I said.....get to know yourself first...?????? And I am a girl last I checked!!!!!!!huh huh huh huh


I was typing while you were posting Doll Face. Relax:wink:

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:52 AM
is this a flashback or i really have seen this kind of pity seeking thread?
What you are passing through almost everybody passes through, so you are not alone. Now get a hold of yourself and keep moving on. when the right person comes you need to be ready for her, but if you spend your time crying you won't be ready for her.

nuenjins's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:58 AM
Gee Lonely. Drill sargent the kid why doncha.grumble

Love is effort yeah, but don't take the fun out of it.flowerforyou

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Mon 11/26/07 10:00 AM
You words sound so much like son's. He's just 19 and is trying to find a Christian girlfriend in MI. As I tell him, give it time and keep involved with other things. Dating isn't really what life is all about. Sometimes it's best to just make friends and enjoy them, until maybe someone does turn up. Keep up the positive thoughts though.flowerforyou

no photo
Mon 11/26/07 10:02 AM
My other post was supposed to say "your words", not "you words". Geez. I'm full of mistakes today.laugh laugh