how do one get real date on mingle2

Hi mate, if she looks to good to be true, it will be a scam, just block from the start, so much time and effort waisted otherwise. Good luck

If I may ask, what to you is "too good to be true"?

Is it the way she looks? Her "credentials"? Don't you think that's prejudice? If I may suggest, get to know the person first. That's the purpose of a chat, right? Getting to know one another.

I know sites like this have people from all walks of life, and that includes those whose intent is to prey on innocent ones. I think communicating will flush out the real ones.

I confirm this. Stay as normal as possible. i.e. you would not stand up in a bus and shout to the people: "I am Joe Smith, I have been divorced. I have problems with alcohol. But I am a sexy man."
So, if you dont to it in the bus, dont do it in chat. Talk like you would talk to somebody you met by chance in a cafe. Talk about basics like: hello, I am Soandso. Say something personal to that person you want to get know. i.e. something about the hobby the person mentioned...
Keep it small talk. You will realize quiet soon, if this person is a normal single as you. Real people can talk about real stuff in a real way.
Me personally I dont give any contact information soon, no e-Mail, whatapp, skype, hangout, viber and do on. You will not do it in the bus eather: "hello again, I am Joe Smith, I am still living with my parents at pine canyon rd in Palmdale. My phone number is...".
Serious people are not getting bored about a realistic conversation. Its the way to get someone to know. Once the time will come to ask something personal: "Are you interested in Sport? I do soandso. How about you?" or "Would you like to tell me somehting about your job?".

Take care of all in daily life unsual stuff like:
- asking for money,
- asking for e-Mail-adress to send nude photos (except you want this, than its not about relationship=
- asking for load of a phone
- early talk about marriage (quiet often with asian and african women)
- women who very soon start talking about tragedies in their life: "my father died, while I was a teen. I took care for my younger brother. My mother is very sick. She cant work or leave the house. My former husband took all my belongings."

As men we like to help a woman, to be needed, to be the knight in white armour who comes to rescue the mistreated princes. We feel great, when we and do this. But Women know this too. Some use it to guide us in a direction where we feel ashame if we do not do what that woman excpected (or ask for). So, if you read something like that, take care, it might be a trap.

If you are longing for a serious longterm, meaningful relationship: take time to develope it.
If you are looking for a one-night-stand: forget the words I wrote.
;-)

when you're honest caring and serious, I'm very sure you will see a nice women

I feel ye pal its f madness brong back the 90s easy and in only 49 lol

any one is serious at mingle2 ..i think so

It’s been very difficult. I’m new on this online dating thing. In just two weeks, I‘ve had 7 very nice conversations with men that ended up being scammers. It’s so disappointing. I wasted my time and energy. I don’t know if this is worth it. Would I be able to find good and honest men here?
As if I had written in my profile : « Scammers are welcome » 🤣🤣🤣