Christians in some circles seem to think now that are seeking God more, looking for a HOT girl is wrong, as if God reserved the lookers for the pagans.
I still a and maybe more then ever looking for the same type girl physically that I ever did. I don't want to be tempted by the world because I got married to someone I was not attracted to.

Uh, why would you get married in the first place if you were not attracted to your bride?

I understand the importance of attraction. It is no sin to desire or be attracted to someone. I, too, desire the same. Hope you find what you desire.

Love Trish

few things are either or, most things are about priority

if the outward is not the priority,, I see no issue with it biblically

if what is 'attractive' is not based solely and only on some worldly value of outer beauty,,,that is


Proverbs 31:30 Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain,
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.


Peter 3

3 Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear— 4 but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious.

Yea, MsHarmony, I concur, one does not need a magnifying glass to see that the notion "attractive" is driven by lust : not love.

True love seeks appreciates and edifies the Kingdom qualities in prospective friends and spouse..

Remember, Jesus said that some are from above while others [the majority] are from beneath. [John 8: 23-28] So each sect will pursue, with their kind of kindred spirit- those interests that is peculiar to their nature and destiny.

The laws of sowing and reaping remains sacrosanct. So those who sow by the fantasies of the flesh must reap corruption.

It is just less than 10% of humanity: the remnant. Who cultivated the spiritual seeds on fertile ground that are eligible to garner their fruits in the shores of eternity.

Is not the external dependent on person to person? What one may prefer is not the preference of another. TOo many Christian people remain single because of their long list of wants. But hey no one is perfect!