hi girls

Amazing what you learn about the opposite sex in these threads, I'm still none the wiser.

I believe a woman does want a man that instinctually knows how to be himself. Someone that doesn't personify the stereotype of what a man is supposed to be but deeply understands and demonstrates himself to her. Someone that is honest to her about the things he feels because he is secure with himself.

Its easier that way because when a man understands himself and is secure with who he is she doesn't have to wade thru the act to see the real person. What is even better is when she witnesses the same behavior no matter who that man is interacting with.