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Topic: Holidays Approach...Now What?
PIDavid's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:11 PM
I was doing so great, talking, chatting and occasional phone calls to new friends. Thats when a mutual friend told me how depressing it was going to be to be without a significant other around the holidays.

Thats when I realized she was right...Now what do I do?
Besides cold showers and jogging.
What do single people do to forget that this year they spend the cold days and night alone?

mry's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:13 PM
Damn good question!

bluebell's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:13 PM
Hug your pillows
Hug your kids (if you have any)

Ask Santa to send you that someone special that you keep wishing was next to you

Good luck, i know how you feel about the holidays and no special someone to share it with flowerforyou

Ashley1202's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:15 PM
I know exactly how you feel. UGH! I try to fill up my days so that I don't think about being alone. Winter is the worst for me...it seems so cold and depressing. Try to fill up your days with events around town or get together with some friends. :smile:

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:16 PM
May I suggest playing the crane machine, and stocking up on stuffed animals........they keep you warm and you can cuddle up to them...........:smile:

mry's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:17 PM

May I suggest playing the crane machine, and stocking up on stuffed animals........they keep you warm and you can cuddle up to them...........:smile:



I'm not so sure a crane machine will do it for me! laugh

PIDavid's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:19 PM
Edited by PIDavid on Thu 11/22/07 06:21 PM
Thats not good advice I can never win at that crane machine.,... Then I can be alone and loser...LOL

I got pillows and kids...Thanks

mry's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:21 PM
Ok then I will pretend you are my boyfriend for the holidays!laugh

PIDavid's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:21 PM

Ok then I will pretend you are my boyfriend for the holidays!laugh


OK deal.

Zstratman's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:22 PM

Get out and meet new people. Won't be a special someone if you don't get out and find her.

mry's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:22 PM
Be careful I have a large gift list! LOL But you will love my family!

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:23 PM
Sorry Im in a silly mood today............but on a serious note


I have been alone for close to nine years now.......its something that you learn to deal with by spending time with friends, and family.......and making sure you have lots of pillows to hug

PIDavid's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:26 PM

Sorry Im in a silly mood today............but on a serious note


I have been alone for close to nine years now.......its something that you learn to deal with by spending time with friends, and family.......and making sure you have lots of pillows to hug


Im refuse to wait 9years for anything...
The pillow I use is warm and comfortable, I'm all over it every night. Its the one that sits next to me, That one is freezing. Thanks for the advice. I love my family.

mry's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:28 PM
Wow, you have a long profile!

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:28 PM
Its how you decide to deal with it that will make the holidays good or bad.............and I hope that next year you will have found that special one to spend those days with, plus all the other days that aren't holidays:smile:

PIDavid's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:30 PM

Wow, you have a long profile!


I know, sorry bout that.

mry's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:33 PM
LOL, I dig the PI thing!

PIDavid's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:34 PM


Get out and meet new people. Won't be a special someone if you don't get out and find her.



Thanks for taking a second. Being semi-shy doesn't make for meeting new people in real life an easy task.

Although I know I'm not helpless Its just been the first time I enjoyed Thanksgiving without someone special. Soon this will all change. Sooner then later. Besides I still have 30 days till Christmas.

PIDavid's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:35 PM

LOL, I dig the PI thing!


Doesn't help me get girls.....But thanks, I kinda dig it too.

mry's photo
Thu 11/22/07 06:38 PM
I think I want to marry you! LOL

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