Uhhhh... careful what you say,,, she picked you!

When she picked me she had her head on straight and picked a winner. Now i believe she has lost it a little bit.

I don't think her character should be assasinated based on your like or dislike of her boyfriend. You seem to think you have your head on straight and you find a lovely woman that cherrishes your children. What would you do if your ex did not like her? Would you honor your ex's wishes and dump this woman?

She is your ex... generally that means she is the enemy. Sometimes things don't work out- not because of anything more than circumstance. Don't let what happened then taint what is happening now. SHE is not your concern. Those kids are. As single parents, we must learn to "suck it up"... grow a thicker skin to what the ex is doing... and we must remember that for all their faults, at one point we must have seen something good in them. We may not like what they are doing presently, but we must hope that they are in favor of achieving 1 common goal: Raising upstanding, beautiful and intelligent little people. As long as you both can keep that in focus... let the rest go... if you don't it's just going to add fuel to the fire.

You are right again. Where did you come from. Thanks for the advice.


Teddy

Umm... Chicago?
You're welcome and good luck.