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| Topic: REBOUND RELATIONSHIPS --- not about basketball | |
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I'm a bit of a soft touch so I've had one or two when I was younger. It never works and I never learn, hope a few heartbroken filly's read this 
Et tu, Brute? .. I mean joe You didn't say you were sorry so I hope them broken filly don't read this. 
No, I meant I've tried to mend a few broken hearts, I'm not very good at it but the thoughts there. oh (((joe))) you are a good man charlie brown 
That was gallant of you... it is difficult to mend a broken heart but you did try so kudos to you, my friend
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I have to say 1,2, and 5 are NOT signs of a Rebound relationship. 1...After so long of not dating, and you're over your ex. Sometimes you just want to have a date. 2....Say that date goes well and Sex does take place. That oxytocin feeling should come about and let you feel like you are a sex machine. 5....Hate to say it, but mood swings take place. Their normal, as any everyday interaction that could cause a mood swing. Hell, I have them daily. So with that said, this list is a crock of crap. I have been involved in a few rebound relationships. If I had known the women in question were on the rebound, we wouldn't have gone out. If you had not dated for a long time and you're over your ex, then it can no longer be called a rebound, scoob. The list is not carved on stone, scoob... "You are on a rebound relationship if you’re experiencing more than a few of these signs." So if you didn't agree with 1,2and5, did you agree with the other signs on the list? No, because 3,4,6,13 and 14 are the only ones that come in to play as a rebound. In my opinion. So that's only 5 out of 14 listed. If you see you're ex, and there was any true feelings for each other. Chances are there will be some reaction good or bad. 5 can still be considered as "a few" thank you for your input, scoob
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Yea Ms R I agree. Some time I think our pain over rides even our best interests. AND at some points those we who should make themselves heard can't or won't be. I don't know the solution; clearly not having relationships will work for long but sometimes I think taking that break after a bad one is the only way to reset and have a chance to be happy again.
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I tend to move on but at the same time I don't let go of the past relationship.. I tend to look for all the qualities the last person had.. in the new person.. basically I'm looking for the Heartbreak relationship.. person in the new person.... which I know isn't healthy.... but it's how I cope with the loss... but at the same time I convince myself I'm better off without
. The one who broke my heart... but deep down I know that's a lie... but what are you going to do???.. sit around hoping they come to their senses.. and realize that you were great together... I do that for a while.. Try to get them to see reason.. let them know.. things would be different this time around... but sadly by the time they realize this I've already moved on to a new relationship... and put them behind me... so sometimes it's better to realize what you had.. And hang on to that... rather than being angry.. and then realize one day it's too late...yup. |
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I always believed in the relationship to give it every shot at resolving whatever but once I hit the wall and walk out it is a one way door and I am so over whatever once existed there is no big comfort to even fantasize about a reunification.-
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