Topic: Ideal Relationship
mirr20's photo
Sat 02/11/17 11:22 PM
Hi, i'm new here. Nice to meet you guys. Just wanna listen to your opinion, what is an ideal relationship for me? Maybe you can suggest me many things about an ideal relationship. Thanks.

samatvam's photo
Sun 02/12/17 08:41 AM
I'd suggest you first to understand clear for yourself what ideal relationship means for you. In taht case you can more easily understand what other people want from you and so make right decisions. Good luck!! :))))

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Sun 02/12/17 03:46 PM
for me ideal relationship being able to love, accept and support each other, whatever is the circumstances.:blush:

Goofball73's photo
Sun 02/12/17 05:29 PM

Hi, i'm new here. Nice to meet you guys. Just wanna listen to your opinion, what is an ideal relationship for me? Maybe you can suggest me many things about an ideal relationship. Thanks.


Avoid men who send you penis pics. Unless you ask for them. Then its all on you. laugh

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Sun 02/12/17 08:10 PM
The one I have with my niece, my chubby little nephew and with kids in general. This is priceless for me.

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Sun 02/12/17 10:24 PM
hey u look nice

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Sun 02/12/17 10:45 PM
Edited by no1phD on Sun 02/12/17 11:12 PM
Well.. I don't know about you but I can tell you what I would like in an ideal relationship..lol.. I would like to be with a giver.. because I am a giver myself.. and I have recently learned that a giver can't be with a taker..
Because the giver will always give and a taker will always take... I want to be with someone that will give to me because I give to them.. not just when they feel like it ..not just when it's convenient.for them.. not just somebody that wants someone to keep them company.. but somebody that wants my company.. not just when they want it.. someone that's open to talk about all types of things..
Not somebody that just only wants to talk about only their interests..
And makes you feel like that's all you can talk to them about..
Somebody that might rub my feet rather than me always rubbing there's..
.. somebody that's going to kiss me passionately rather than me always having to kiss them passionately...
Somebody that wants to connect emotionally , intellectually, physically
On a deeper Less superficial level..
Someone's that's going to put true effort into a relationship.. not just effort when they have the time or energy...A partner that ask themselves.. am I doing the best I can do.. or am I just phoning it in.. letting my partner put Max effort in.. and they actually show that they are.. buy all the things they do.. touch me. Want to talk with me.. show interest in my life.. be okay with being quiet..
Sometimes.. and letting me know that's okay... someone that's going to rub my sore feet..lol.. someone that wants to spend time with me!.. not just doing what they want to do running errands.. someone that values me in my opinion.. not somebody.. that only wants to hear what they want to hear.. because a person like that isn't someone I can say... that's a great idea about a shelf..you want me to build..for you and iam happy to do it ...but.. in my experience..your shelf...
Needs some tweaking... but you only want the Shelf you want.. regardless if it's right or wrong.... and then make me feel like I can't tell you that...
Nope don't want that kind of relationship... I want a relationship where we can sit down and build the best shelf possible together...yup..

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Mon 02/13/17 06:38 PM
Edited by aip9615 on Mon 02/13/17 06:47 PM

Well.. I don't know about you but I can tell you what I would like in an ideal relationship..lol.. I would like to be with a giver.. because I am a giver myself.. and I have recently learned that a giver can't be with a taker..
Because the giver will always give and a taker will always take... I want to be with someone that will give to me because I give to them.. not just when they feel like it ..not just when it's convenient.for them.. not just somebody that wants someone to keep them company.. but somebody that wants my company.. not just when they want it.. someone that's open to talk about all types of things..
Not somebody that just only wants to talk about only their interests..
And makes you feel like that's all you can talk to them about..
Somebody that might rub my feet rather than me always rubbing there's..
.. somebody that's going to kiss me passionately rather than me always having to kiss them passionately...
Somebody that wants to connect emotionally , intellectually, physically
On a deeper Less superficial level..
Someone's that's going to put true effort into a relationship.. not just effort when they have the time or energy...A partner that ask themselves.. am I doing the best I can do.. or am I just phoning it in.. letting my partner put Max effort in.. and they actually show that they are.. buy all the things they do.. touch me. Want to talk with me.. show interest in my life.. be okay with being quiet..
Sometimes.. and letting me know that's okay... someone that's going to rub my sore feet..lol.. someone that wants to spend time with me!.. not just doing what they want to do running errands.. someone that values me in my opinion.. not somebody.. that only wants to hear what they want to hear.. because a person like that isn't someone I can say... that's a great idea about a shelf..you want me to build..for you and iam happy to do it ...but.. in my experience..your shelf...
Needs some tweaking... but you only want the Shelf you want.. regardless if it's right or wrong.... and then make me feel like I can't tell you that...
Nope don't want that kind of relationship... I want a relationship where we can sit down and build the best shelf possible together...yup..







thi is exactly what I am looking for XD. i could add to that that i want a guy close to my age (i am 20), and that is a devoted Christian,this is of great importance to me since i really expect a relationship with someone that can eventually be my husband, I believe in sex until marriage, I strongly question all aspects of christianity base on what was teach by jesus and his disiples, i dont 100% follow religion unless i have seen it in the bible or there is concordance with it. I really want to get someone who has the same serious believes and live style I want to teach my kids one day.

my ideal lifestyle will be in a self-sufficient way so for me is very important that to find someone who wants to homestead/live off the gridd/permaculture, and I will kind of prefer some sort of the creative type cause its a great way to make the homestead better (also, to earn extra cash, also i am a creative person myself XD), if the person is not only looking for stuff to work but to also eventually be more stylish and comfortable (of course it will have pass a good deal of time before that). but you know what I mean.

Jessymb's photo
Thu 02/16/17 06:40 AM
well if you ain't a tomcat no need of chickening out of whatever they brand you..otherwise chatting with as many people as possible is one sure-fire-way of getting the right one out of the list of the best candidates. i am still sieving through. Too much understanding of what an ideal relationship is actually equivalent to too much delusion, so my dear just cut the hullaballooo and get the groove on..reaady?

Jessymb's photo
Thu 02/16/17 06:42 AM
well put...it's a win win situation others however make it catch 22..hehehe..i like the passionate kissing bit more.

Funzy65's photo
Thu 02/16/17 06:52 AM
Edited by Funzy65 on Thu 02/16/17 07:08 AM

Hi, i'm new here. Nice to meet you guys. Just wanna listen to your opinion, what is an ideal relationship for me? Maybe you can suggest me many things about an ideal relationship. Thanks.


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There are at least over 1 million and
counting on websites like this.

When you ask for opinions, you will get over
1 million opinions & versions, each to his/her own,
every one fitted/suited to each individual in his/her case.
BUT NOT YOU in particular .( Let's admit it )

Every opinion , suggestion or advice can help
you CHOOSE what suits best yourself, NEEDS & WANTS.

CONCLUSION:

SIMPLE THINGS IN LIFE ARE OFTEN FREE and THE BEST.

RELATIONSHIPS sometimes is like COOKING,
and adding a VARIETY of herbs & spices
is what gives that food the final flavour/s.

Try experimenting the easy & simple way,
adding VARIETY to your relationship.

VARIETY IS THE SPICE OF LIFE :wink:
And I mean VARIETY in a CLEAN & FUN WAY.

Ps:...I'm not an expert, it's just me Chirping blushing

Tim2474's photo
Thu 02/16/17 10:46 AM
It's simple, find someone who loves as much as you love, someone who needs you as much as you need them.. need them because you love them! Live laugh and love together, that's sounds pretty "Ideal" to me!

SitkaRains's photo
Thu 02/16/17 11:09 AM

Hi, i'm new here. Nice to meet you guys. Just wanna listen to your opinion, what is an ideal relationship for me? Maybe you can suggest me many things about an ideal relationship. Thanks.


I honestly dont see how anyone can answer this...
Here is my take on "my ideal relationship"

This is what has made it work for almost 2 years.

1. Knowing myself inside and out understanding my strengths and weakness's.
2. Being totally honest with myself and him no matter what.
3. Accepting that we are not perfect never will be.
4. Communicate no matter how easy or how hard.
5. Compromise...
6. Love who they are just as they are; understanding that hopefully you both will change evolve and grow.
7. Remember to laugh.
8. Make time for each other
9. Choose my battles wisely.
10. Stay who I am and he stays who he is.

In closing I can honestly say not only do I love him
I like him
I respect him

Rameshingle's photo
Thu 02/16/17 11:12 AM
hi